Getting Along
Someone made a face at you. What should you do?
Ignore
You just got new glasses and there is a student in your class that is teasing you about them. This hurts your feelings. What should you do?
Talk it out.. tell them you like them and that it hurts your feelings that they are making fun of them, Ignore, Use humor
You are working in a group in your classroom and one of the people in your group is not doing anything. What should you do?
Compromise, Get help, negotiate, explain that as a group we are supposed to work together
Someone on the bus is calling you names every day. This really hurts your feelings. What should you do?
use humor, get help, ignore,
This is verbal bullying
Your best friend is starting to play with another student in your class instead of you. What should you do?
Talk it out, let them know how it makes you feel and see if can come up with a compromise
You are playing a game and you both want to go first. What should you do?
Chance, compromise, take turns
There are a group of kids on the playground from your class who are playing soccer and they tell you that you can't play because you aren't good enough. What should you do?
Compromise, Talk it out, Get Help, Use Humor, Negotiate, Take Turns, this is social emotional bullying- leaving you out on purpose
You are playing a game with some friends and you win. One of the players is really angry that you won and is not being a good sport about it. What should you do?
use humor, let them know it was just for fun and that it doesn't matter who wins or loses
A student in your class was playing in the bathroom when you were in there, and you know that is not allowed. He threatens to hurt you if you tell the teacher. What should you do?
Get help from a teacher
Your friend always wants to be the one who chooses what game you will play. This is starting to get frustrating to you. What should you do?
compromise, negotiate, talk it out let them know how it makes you feel, take turns, ignore
You just got a new haircut and it is very different from your original look. You're worried that someone might make fun of it. You walk into the classroom and a student laughs and points at you. What should you do?
Use Humor, Ignore. Say it's ok if they dont like my haircut I like it and that's all that matters.
You see one of your friends being made fun of at recess by another student. What should you do?
Get help, be an upstander and go to that friend that is being made fun of and have them join you or help them stand up to the bully together
Your best friend looks mad at you and is ignoring you but she hasn't told you why she's angry and you don't have a clue what is bothering her. What should you do?
Talk it out, say I'm not sure why you are mad at me but you are my best friend so I would like to talk it out and see if we can fix the problem. Can't fix a problem if don't know what it is
One of your friends was teasing you and things went too far and now you are mad. What should you do?
Talk it out, explain your feelings
You asked your friend about her dad and she got very upset because she doesn't see her father anymore. You didn't mean to hurt her feelings but didn't realize that this might be a sensitive topic to her. What should you do?
Apologize, you didn't mean to hurt her feelings
You are part of a literature circle group for your class. When it is time to discuss the book that you are reading, another class member keeps interrupting you and you are getting mad. What should you do?
Let them know that they keep ignoring you and that it is making you frustrated, tell them that they can have a turn to share as well
A "friend" of yours is constantly making fun of you in front of other people but is nice to you when you are both alone. You are confused and hurt by this friend's actions. What should you do?
Talk it out,let them know how it makes you feel and tell them that isn't what a true friend does and that they would rather not be friends with them at all then if that is how they continue to act
Your friend let you borrow one of his video games and now you can't find it. He is upset. What should you do?
Apologize, give them money or buy them a new game
You heard someone whispering and you think you heard your name mentioned. What should you do?
Ignore, Talk it out, ask question about why they are talking about you
A new student just joined your class from another country and you assumed he was from Mexico because he was hispanic but he is really from El Salvador. This student was very offended. What should you do?
Apologize, ask them about their country so you know more about them and where they are from
You are playing a game that requires you to be divided up into teams of 2. You don't like the person you are teamed up with, but the teacher said you have to work together. What should you do?
Talk it out, compromise, be respectful and work together, treat them as you would like to be treated
Someone started a rumor about you that was not true and very hurtful. You know who started it. What should you do?
Talk it with that friend about how you know they are spreading rumors, use humor, ask an adult for help if this doesn't work.
Social emotional bullying
Your only friend in the class is playing with someone that you don't like. You are getting frustrated by this. What should you do?
Compromise, let them know how this makes you feel and make a plan to maybe do something another time.