Conflict Resolution Jeopardy

Getting Along

100

Someone made a face at you. What could you do? A. Use Debug B. Give them a Face back C. Tell a Teacher

Use Debug

200

You are playing a game and you both want to go first. What could you do? A. Yell at the kid B. Take Turns C. Compromise

C. Compromise

300

You and your friend have not been as close lately. How could you approach a conversation about this with your friend? A. Tell your parents B. Tell your friend to talk to them C. Use I messages

Use I messages.

400

One of your friends was teasing you and things went too far and now you are mad. What should you do? A. Talk to your friend B. Start a rumor C. Go to a new school

Talk to your friend

500

You heard someone whispering and you think you heard your name mentioned. What Debug Step should you do first? A. Ignore B. Talk Friendly C. Tell an Adult

Ignore it.

Respecting Differences

100

You just got new glasses and there is a student in your class who is teasing you about them. This hurts your feelings. What I message could you use to tell them your feelings are hurt?

I feel _______ when ________________. I need _________. I feel upset when you're making fun of my glasses. I need you to stop.

200

There are a group of kids on the playground from your class who are playing soccer and they tell you that you can't play because you aren't good enough. How would you handle the situation?

You could go find something else to do. You could talk to them and let them know you don't think this is fair. You could ignore it and walk away.

300

You just got a new haircut and it is very different from your original look. You're worried that someone might make fun of it. You walk into the classroom and a student laughs and points at you. What should you do? (hint DEBUG)

Ignore it Walk away Talk friendly Talk Firmly Tell an Adult

400

You asked your friend about her dog and she got very upset because her dog is sick. You didn't mean to hurt her feelings. What should you do?

Apologize to her, Talk it out and let her know you didn't mean to hurt her feelings

500

A new student just joined your class from another country. How can you make friends with this student?

Introduce yourself Ask him/her to play with you at recess

Teamwork

100

You are working in a group in your classroom and one of the people in your group is not doing anything. What should you do? A. Tell Mrs. Gorgia B. Talk it out C. Switch groups

B. Talk it out

200

You are playing a game with some friends and you win. One of the players is really angry that you won and is not being a good sport about it. He thinks you are bragging. What should you do?

Watch your words to be sure you're not bragging. Ignore them until they calm down. Remind them it's just a game.

300

You are working on a project with a partner and you both want to do the first part. What should you do? A. Rock/paper scissors B. Compromise C. Take Turns. D. All of them.

D. All of them Chance - rock/paper/scissors, flip a coin to decide Compromise - find a win/win solution Take turns

400

You are part of a reading circle group for your class. When it is time to discuss the book that you are reading, another class member keeps interrupting you and you are getting mad. You ignored her, that didn't work. You can't walk away.. what can you try next?

Talk friendly: Use an I message to let them know how you're feeling. "I'm feeling frustrated when you keep interrupting. I need you to let me have a chance to share my ideas too."

500

You are playing a game that requires you to be divided up into teams of 2. You don't like the person you are teamed up with, but the teacher said you have to work together. What should you do? A. Stop and think about how the person would feel B. Cry C. Just ignore the kid and not work

A. Stop and think about how the person would feel

No-Bullying Behaviors

100

Someone on the bus is calling you names every day. This really hurts your feelings. What should you do?

Ignore what you can. Ask them to stop. Sit with friends so you have people around you who are being nice. Tell the bus driver.

200

A student in your class was playing in the bathroom when you were in there, and you know that is not allowed. He threatens to hurt you if you tell the teacher. What should you do?

Tell the teacher anyway - if someone is threatening you this isn't safe. You could always write a note to let the teacher know if you're worried about the other student seeing you tell.

300

You see one of your friends being made fun of at recess by another student. What should you do? A. Be an upstander B. Be a bystander

Be an upstander!

400

A "friend" of yours is constantly making fun of you in front of other people but is nice to you when you are both alone. You are confused and hurt by this friend's actions. What should you do?

Talk about it with the "friend." Let them know it's not okay for them to be so mean to you in front of others and that this is crossing the line. Decide if it's worth trying to be friends with someone who is treating you like that. Think about what a real friend would do.

500

Someone started a rumor about you that was not true and very hurtful. You know who started it. What should you do?

Talk to the person. Let them know how it made you feel and that this is not okay.

General Friendship

100

Your best friend is starting to spend time with another student in your class instead of you. What should you do?

See if there are ways you can all be friends. Let your friend know you're missing time with them. Recognize that friendships change and it's okay to spend time with different people.

200

Your friend always wants to be the one who chooses what game you will play. This is starting to get frustrating to you. What should you do?

Ask if you can take turns deciding what to do. Use chance - coin toss, rock/paper/scissors Compromise and find a win/win solution Talk about it and let them know you're getting frustrated.

300

Your best friend looks mad at you and is ignoring you but she hasn't told you why she's angry and you don't have a clue what is bothering her. What should you do?

Talk about it and ask what's wrong. If she keeps giving you the silent treatment, then just find someone else to hangout with. Let her know you want to know what's wrong to try to fix it and that you're willing to talk about it with her when she's ready.

400

Your friend let you borrow one of his video games and now you can't find it. He is upset. What should you do?

Apologize for losing it. Talk it out. Share (one of yours).

500

Your only friend in the class is hanging out during recess with someone that you don't like. You are getting frustrated by this. What should you do?

If they are your friend, then it's not fair to ask them to choose between you and the person you don't like. You need to calm down and think about it to find a win/win solution. Maybe if you give the other student a chance, you'll be able to make a new friend. You could talk to your friend about it but recognize that you may just need to give the other person a chance to get to know them too.