5 W's and 1 H
What is one "W"?
Who, what, when, where, or why
What is an appropriate way to introduce yourself to someone?
What is one thing you could ask after someone says, “I went to a movie"?
Helps you when you are feeling down!
True or False
Everyone likes hugs.
False - not everyone likes hugs! Make sure you ask someone if they are comfortable before initiating.
What does the "H" stand for?
How
When you are having a conflict with someone, what is the first step in resolving it?
A. Yell at them
B. Take a deep breath
C. Go tell an adult
B. Take a deep breath
What’s a good follow-up question for “I got a new pet”?
What kind of pet?
True or False
Friends should always agree on everything.
False - It's okay to have different opinions! This is what makes us unique.
A. 10 feet
B. 2 feet
C. 8 inches
B. 2 feet
True or False:
A "Who" question asks about the person or people that were involved.
True!
True or False
When you are having a conflict with another person, you should use "you" statements. For example, saying, "You never clean up after yourself."
False - You should always use "I" statements. For example, instead of saying, "You never clean up after yourself," you can say, "I feel frustrated when I come home and the house is dirty. I value a clean space."
Why are follow-up questions important in a conversation?
They allow the conversation to flow and go back and forth between each person.
What should you do if a friend makes you feel sad or frustrated?
Tell them how you feel using "I" statements.
Please stop. I don't like it when you....
What is a "Where" question that could be asked for this scenario?
Lydia went out to dinner last night.
Where did she eat?
What is the difference between a bug behavior and a buddy behavior?
A buddy behavior makes people feel happy, understood, and respected.
A bug behavior makes people feel sad, frustrated, or annoyed.
Give an example of a not-so-good follow-up question and a better follow-up question for this scenario:
"I just got a job."
Not-so-good: What did you have for lunch?
You go to a new program all by yourself and are looking to make friends. You see a group of people sitting together. They are laughing and having a good time. You want to join them. What do you do?
(Hint: an emotional boundary sets a clear limit on what someone is willing to discuss emotionally)
“I’m not comfortable talking about that right now.”
“I need some time alone to calm down before we talk.”
Come up with two W questions and one H question for the following scenario:
Carly went on vacation.
1. Who did she go with?
2. Where did she go?
3. What did she do?
4. When did she get home?
5. Why did she go?
1. How did she get there?
Identify one bug behavior and one buddy behavior you could make in response to the following situation:
You see a friend crying
Bug: ignore them
Come up with three follow-up questions for this scenario:
"I am going on a vacation."
Where are you going?
Who are you going with?
What activities are you going to do?
How would a good friend versus bad friend respond to this situation?
You’re feeling sad because your favorite show got canceled and you were really looking forward to watching it after a hard day.
Good friend: "I’m sorry that happened. I know how much you liked that show. Do you want to talk about it or maybe find something else fun to watch together?"
Bad friend: "Ugh, that’s not a big deal. Just get over it."
A person touches you without asking. They have crossed a personal boundary of yours. What should you do or say to this person?
"I am not comfortable with you touching me. Please give me space."