Name That Feeling!
Cool Down Strategies
Better Choices
Problem-Solving Superstars
100

What is the feeling when your heart races, your fists clench, and you want to yell?

Anger

100

What can you do if you're about to hit someone?

Take deep breaths, walk away, count to 10

100

If someone takes your seat at lunch, should you (A) Yell at them, (B) Ask politely for your seat back, or (C) Tell a teacher?

B or C

100

What should you do first when you have a problem?

Calm down so you can think clearly

200

What is the feeling when someone takes your toy without asking?

Frustration/Anger

200

What is a way to calm down using your hands?

Squeeze a stress ball, draw, or play with putty

200

Your little sibling takes your toy. What should you do instead of hitting?

Use words, tell an adult, ask for it back nicely

200

Who are safe people you can talk to when you're upset?

Parents, teachers, counselors, trusted adults

300

What is the feeling when you regret something you did?

Guilt

300

What should you do if you feel like yelling at someone?

Use an inside voice, take a deep breath, or step away

300

You feel really mad at your best friend. What is one thing you can do before talking to them?

Cool down first, take deep breaths, walk away for a moment

300

If you're mad at a friend, what is one way to work it out?

Talk about it calmly, listen to their side, find a solution together

400

What is the feeling when you try really hard but things don’t go your way?

Disappointment

400

How can movement help when you're mad?

Jumping jacks, running, dancing, stretching, etc.

400

If you break something when angry, what is a responsible way to handle it?

Apologize, clean it up, find a way to fix it

400

What is something you can do if you're about to lose control?

Take a break, deep breaths, use a coping strategy

500

What is the feeling when you feel out of control and really upset?

Overwhelmed

500

What is a positive self-talk phrase to calm down?

“I am in control.” “I can handle this.” “I can take a deep breath.”

500

If you get angry every time you lose a game, what could you do to change that?

Remind yourself it’s okay to lose, focus on having fun, practice good sportsmanship

500

Why is it important to solve problems without hurting others? 

It helps keep friendships, avoids getting in trouble, and makes you feel proud of yourself