Name This Skill
Alphabet Calming Choices
Ways to Resolve Conflict
Body Signals
Understanding My Feelings
10

Slowly and deeply inhaling and exhaling. 

Hint: Can be done through the nose or the mouth or a combination of both. 

What is deep breathing? 

10

Name a calming choice that starts with the letter "C"

What is coloring, counting, etc. 

(answers will vary)

10

You can do this when you know you have done something wrong.

What is apologize?

10

This starts to pound faster when we get upset.

What is our heart?

10

I might feel this way if someone takes something of mine without asking and then breaks it.

What is feeling mad or angry?

100

Slowly.........   1-(calm down), 2-(calm down), 3-(calm down), 4-(calm down), 5-(calm down), 6-(calm down), 7-(calm down), 8-(calm down), 9-(calm down), 10.

What is Counting to 10?

100

Name a calming choice that starts with the letter "W"

What is taking a walk, walking away from the stressor, watching TV or videos, wiggle out my upset, etc.

(answers will vary)

100

You can do this by using your voice and sharing what you think or feel.  

What is talking it out or asking for help?

100

I find my voice getting louder and louder.  I am now doing what?

What is shouting?

100

I might feel this if one of my friends teases me or makes fun of me.

What is feeling sad or embarrassed?

(Answers may vary)

500

When I use crayons or pencils with some paper.

What is coloring or sketching?

500

What is a calming choice that begins with the letter letter "P"?

What is phone a friend, pet or spend time with your animal, punch a pillow, take a peace walk, etc.

(answers will vary)

500

When you use your ears mostly and not your mouth.

What is listening to others.

500

I might feel hot in my face, neck, ears or another part of my body when upset.  

What is sweating or feeling flushed?

500

I might feel this way if I am trying and trying to do something and it is not working out the way I want it to.

What is frustrated?

(Answers may vary)

1000

When I choose to calmly leave a situation that is upsetting to me.

What is walking away from a stressor or conflict?

1000

Name a calming choice that begins with the letter "S".

What is sing, shake it out, squeeze a stress ball, scream into a pillow, share what is bothering you (using your words), etc.

(answers will vary)

1000

When you choose to calmly leave the situation to take a break until you feel better?

What is walking away and letting it go?

1000

This is the part of my body where I might feel butterflies or a sick feeling when I am upset.

What is stomach?

1000

I might feel this way if something I am looking forward to doing gets cancelled.

What is feeling disappointed?

(Answers may vary)

1500

When you pretend that you are in a special place that you like and you use all your senses to take you there in your mind.  

What is imagine you're in your favorite place. 

1500

What is a calming choice that begins with the letter "L"?

What is let it go, listen to music, laugh, leave the conflict or stressor.


(Answers will vary)

1500

When you find a way to adjust to make both people happy.

What is compromise?

1500

I might feel this in my jaw, shoulders, neck or other places in my body.

What is feeling tense?

1500

I might feel this way when my teacher calls on me to answer a question and I don't know the answer.

What is scared, nervous or anxious?

(Answers may vary)