From Negative to Positive
Positive Coping Skills
True or False
Feeling Examples
Self Soothing coping skills
100

You are running away, hiding, or refusing to speak about your problem.  Is this a helpful urge?

No, this is an unhelpful urge. 

100

If you need a break and watch this it can help you feel better.

What is youtube.

100

Everybody has the same coping skills.

False

100

You just found out summer camp is cancelled. 

Sad, angry, disappointed, frustrated 
100

Give an example of a way you can soothe yourself with your eyes. 

Watch funny videos, look at photos of family, friends or pets, look at beautiful artwork or nature photos.

200

When you are angry, you may want to hurt others, what can you do that is positive? 

Ask an adult for help, take a break, use your words to express your anger (ask an adult for help with this too). 

200

To release anger by running, working out, or doing something active is called what?

Exercising

200

It is okay to feel angry, sad, frustrated, etc. but what is important is how we handle these feelings.

True

200

Another student is bothering you and not being kind.  What feeling do you have?

frustration, anger, being mad

200

Give an example of a way you can soothe or comfort yourself with your ears.

Listen to favorite music, listen to nature sounds, talk to a friend or family member

300

When you are angry or frustrated with someone you may use a screaming voice. What is something else you can do? 

Take a deep breath, take a break, do something else (color, watch YouTube) 

300

If you ask first, you can have a ___________ when you are angry or upset.

Break

300

It is necessary to take a break every once in a while.

True

300

A person remembered your birthday and made you a card.  What feeling do you have?

Happy, excited, etc.

300

Name something that is soothing to taste

favorite foods

400

Sometimes when you are upset, you may feel like leaving the classroom. What else can you do?

Ask your teacher for a break or use a squishy. 

400

When you have a problem and you tell yourself that you can do it.  This is called what?

Positive self talk, or encouragement

400

A person can ask for help if they are having a hard time handling or manage their emotions

True

400

You have to give a presentation in front of the class.  What feeling do you have?

Nervous, scared, etc.

400

Name something that is soothing or comforting to touch

Hugging someone, petting a pet, touching soft blankets, hugging a stuffy

500

Your math homework looks to hard so you have the urge to throw it away. Instead you can, _____. 

Remind yourself you can do it, ask an adult for help, ask a friend for help, take it one question at a time. 

500

Paying attention to the present moment on purpose without judgment is also called, what? 

Mindfulness

500

It might take time to figure out what coping skill works for you and you might have to try lots of different ways first.

True

500

You don't know how to do your homework and don't understand it.  What feeling do you have?

Frustrated, stressed, upset.

500

What is something comforting to smell

Cookies baking, favorite fruit, crunchy popcorn, warm soup or hot chocolate