Types of skills
Taking your mind off the problem for a while is this type of coping skill
Distraction
Meditation, yoga, and listening to sounds around us is this type of coping skill
Mindfulness
Give an example of a distraction coping skill
TV, movies, reading, drawing, ect.
True or false
Coping skills are used to avoid problems in our lives
False
Coping skills help us work through problems in a healthy way
How are coping skills helpful?
Builds confidence, manages emotions, builds positive relationships, etc.
Coping skills can be healthy or unhealthy
True - unhealthy coping skills are yelling, hitting, avoiding, gaslighting, etc.
Doing something that is the opposite of the impulse is this type of coping skill
Opposite action
Smelling a candle, taking a shower, and eating a healthy snack is this type of coping skill
Self-soothing
Give an example of a self-soothing coping skill
Smelling candles, taking a shower, putting on comfy clothing, listening to music, etc.
True or false
Coping skills help you focus on important things in your life
True
When we cope with problems and ease or emotions it help us think clearer and tackle them better
What things can make using coping skills difficult?
Having unhealthy coping skills, struggling with mental illness, not knowing what to try, etc.
Exercise can be used a coping skill to help you feel better
True - exercise helps release endorphins (the feel good hormone)
Reaching out for support when no other coping skills are helping is this type of coping skill
Crisis intervention
Watching a movie or reading a book is this type of coping skill
Distraction
Give an example of an emotional awareness coping skill
Journaling, talking to someone, etc.
True or false
Every coping skill is healthy
False
Some ways we learn to cope an not healthy like fighting or using substances
Why is changing your thoughts considered a coping skill?
Changing our thoughts helps change our feelings by thinking more positive thoughts
Distraction is a coping skill we should use when we are in a crisis
False - in a crisis, after trying independent coping skills, you should ask a trusted adult for help
Centering and grounding yourself by focusing on your senses in the moment is this type of coping skill
Mindfulness
Journaling and talking to someone about how you feel is this type of coping skill
Emotional awareness
Give an example of a crisis intervention coping skill
Calling a crisis line, 911, or going to the hospital, etc.
True or false
Coping skills are something everyone is born knowing how to do
False
Coping skills are learned throughout our lives
What makes a coping skill unhealthy?
It might help you feel better in the short term but that negative emotion will keep coming back
Mindfulness is a strategy you can use any time
True - we can always focus our attention on what we are sensing in the moment
Comforting yourself through your five senses is this type of coping skill
Self-soothing
Taking deep breaths and then walking away instead of fighting is this type of coping skill
Opposite action
Give an example of an opposite action coping skill
Walking away instead of fighting, laughing instead crying, standing up straight when you feel nervous, etc.
True or false
Coping skills are only used to help you relax
False
Managing stress, anxiety, and depression is not always relaxing it sometimes takes hard work
Is stress something that can be controlled?
Yes but but it takes time and practice
Punching a punching bag can help us to calm down
False - scientists have found through research that punching a punching bag only creates more anger and aggressiveness