Think of a time you ... (= it was possible to make it) to a competition, game, or event but didn’t. What stopped you?
Think of a time you could have made it to a competition, game, or event but didn’t. What stopped you?
Do you believe your stress levels had to do with your work habits in the past? What ... (= it would be a good idea to change it) sooner?
Do you believe your stress levels had to do with your work habits in the past? What should you have changed sooner?
Think of a presentation that didn’t go well. What ... (= was possible for the speaker to do) to prepare better?
Think of a presentation that didn’t go well. What could the speaker have done to prepare better?
In a team setting, tell about a time when have you ... (= that would be the right thing to do), but didn’t. Why did you hold back?
In a team setting, tell about a time when have you should have spoken up, but didn’t. Why did you hold back?
Was there a friendship or relationship that ended because of something that ... (= was important to be discussed) but wasn’t?
Was there a friendship or relationship that ended because of something that should have been discussed but wasn’t?
Do you know someone who is prone to skipping workouts? What changes ... (= would be a good idea to make) earlier to stay active?
Do you know someone who is prone to skipping workouts? What changes should they have made earlier to stay active?
Describe a situation where you or somebody else ... (= it would be a good idea to draw) the line between work and personal life. What was the consequence of not doing it?
Describe a situation where you or somebody else should have drawn the line between work and personal life. What was the consequence of not doing it?
Have you ever witnessed somebody panick before a speech? What strategies ... (= it could be a good idea to use them) to calm themself?
Have you ever witnessed somebody panick before a speech? What strategies should they have used to calm themself?
Can you recall a team project where someone ... (= it was possible to contribute more, but no one did) more, including yourself?
Can you recall a team project where someone could have contributed more, including yourself?
Are you prone to overthinking past conversations? What’s something you ... (= be able to let go of) more easily?
Are you prone to overthinking past conversations? What’s something you could have let go of more easily?
Looking back, is there a sport or activity you ... when you were younger? Why didn’t you?
Looking back, is there a sport or activity you should have stuck with when you were younger? Why didn’t you?
Can you think of a job opportunity you ... but turned down? How would your life have gone differently if you had?
Can you think of a job opportunity you could have taken but turned down? How would your life have gone differently if you had?
Was there a moment when someone in the audience disagreed with you? How did you react? How do you wish you ... ?
Was there a moment when someone in the audience disagreed with you? How did you react? How do you wish you would have responded?
Have you ever made it to the final stage of a group project only to realize a key step was missed? What ... earlier?
Have you ever made it to the final stage of a group project only to realize a key step was missed? What should your team have done earlier?
If you could go back in time and change one thing about any relationship you had, what ... ?
If you could go back in time and change one thing about any relationship you had, what would you have changed?