You are having a conflict with a friend and need to talk to them. I wonder what you could use.
I statement
You are completing math homework and it's hard. You want to give up but you don't. Is this Fixed or Growth Mindset?
Growth Mindset
You want to hang with your friend but they are playing with their friend.
Invite both friends over to play or ask them if you could join them
In this zone you might feel sick, sad, tired, bored and sleepy.
the Blue Zone
This is a career where you may work at an elementary school. This person works in a classroom. You have had one in each grade.
A Teacher
You are being bullied and need some help. Who do you go to?
A trusted adult
You are learning to ride your bike and give up. You are never riding your bike again. It's too hard. Is this Fixed or Growth Mindset?
Fixed Mindset
These are ways to keep or maintain a friendship. State one.
Invite, be Kind, Learn, Respect, Resolve, Defend and Empathize
In this zone you might feel angry, furious, out of control and frightened.
the Red Zone
You may see this career when they put out a fire.
A Firefighter
You do this to make friends.
Introduce yourself, ask them to play, etc.
You are trying to memorize the order of the planets. You keep going and never give up. This would be Fixed or Growth Mindset?
Growth Mindset
Your friend is extremely sad and doesn't know what to do, how can you help?
a) tell them to stop being sad
b) tell them to talk to a trusted adult
c) ignore them and hope they feel better
b) tell them to talk to a trusted adult
You might be starting to lose some control in this zone. You may be worried, silly or excited.
the Yellow zone
You may see this career on the news or reporting the news?
A News Reporter or Journalist
You notice someone was being mean to someone else. You do not go tell a trusted adult. You are being a ______?
Bystander
"I can't do this" is fixed mindset. How could we change it to a more positive statement?
I can't do this yet or I can do this
This is the zone we avoid resolving conflict between friends.
the Red Zone
You are ready to learn in this zone.
the Green Zone
This career works with exotic animals like lions, tigers or bears.
A zookeeper or zoologist
What are the 3 R's in bullying?
Recognize, Report, Refuse
Self-awareness is important to have. Working on your ______ helps you feel more confident.
Self-esteem
True or False?
Looking at the speaker is a part of ACTIVE LISTENING.
True
This helps you understand how you are feeling and in what zone you are in. (Hint: colors)
The Zones of Regulation
What is the name for a person’s work over their lifetime?
Career