Bullying Prevention
You notice someone was being mean to someone else. You do not go tell a trusted adult. You are being a ______?
Bystander
What does it mean to have a growth mindset?
You believe you can improve your abilities and achieve your goals through effort, hard work, and practice
What is respect?
A) Doing whatever you want
B) Ignoring others’ feelings
C) Treating people how you and they want to be treated
C) Treating people how you and they want to be treated
True or False: If you interrupt someone as they are sharing a story then you are listening to them with attention.
False.
Emotions can only be strong, never mild.
False
You are being bullied and need some help. Name three trusted adults you can talk to.
Any three trusted adults (e.g., teacher, parent, counselor)
You are completing math homework and it's hard. You want to give up but you don't. Is this showing a Fixed or Growth Mindset?
Growth Mindset
True or False: Being responsible means waiting for someone to remind you before doing something.
False
Practice handling rejection.
You invite two friends over for pizza and a movie. They both said they have other plans. What can you say to yourself to think positively?
e.g., "I can find something else to do!" or "I'll ask them when they're free next time." or "I'll ask some other friends."
You see someone with a red face, clenched fists, and shouting. What emotion might they be feeling?
They might be feeling angry.
You see a classmate being laughed at because of their clothes. Name three things you can do to use your bystander power to help your classmate?
e.g., Stand next to them, invite them to play, get help from an adult.
You are learning to ride your bike and give up. You are never riding your bike again. It's too hard. Is this showing a Fixed or Growth Mindset?
Fixed Mindset
Your friend is extremely sad and doesn't know what to do, how can you help?
a) tell them to stop being sad
b) encourage them to talk to a trusted adult
c) ignore them and hope they feel better
b) encourage them to talk to a trusted adult
Which is a skill in our Listening with Attention Checklist?
A) Interrupting to share your story
B) Repeat what you heard to show you understand
C) Focusing on your own thoughts
D) Asking questions to learn more
B) Repeat what you heard to show you understand
Some problems can be tiny (very small). These types of problems are "no big deal!" Write an example of a tiny problem.
e.g., Your mom gave you goldfish for lunch instead of pretzels
Why is it important to speak up when you see bullying?
e.g., To help others feel safe, show kindness, and stop bullying from continuing
"I can't do this" is a fixed mindset statement. How could we change it to a growth mindset statement?
E.g., I can't do this yet!
Fill in the blanks:
I show respect to my teacher by __________.
I show respect to my classmates by
__________.
e.g, listening, following directions, using kind words
Being ______ means using a calm and respectful voice to say what you need.
Assertive
Name four things you can do this summer to have fun that do not involve using a device.
e.g., go outside, spend time with friends, go to an amusement park, take a walk, go out to eat
What are the 3 R's in bullying?
Recognize, Report, Refuse
You tried out for the talent show, but didn’t get picked. Instead of telling yourself, “Ugh, I’ll never get to perform.” What can your growth mindset brain say?
Any helpful thought (e.g., “I can try again next time,” or “I’m proud I had the courage to try.”
You accidentally bump into someone’s desk and knock their supplies down. What can you say and do to show responsibility and make amends?
e.g., Pick the supplies and apologize by saying something like “I’m sorry I bumped into your desk. Next time I’ll watch where I walk. Let me help you pick things up!"
Someone cuts in front of you in the lunch line. What is an assertive way to respond?
e.g., “Excuse me, I was next in line. Please go to the back.”
What is the name for a person’s work over their lifetime?
Career