Expectations vs. Reality
Real Experiences
Guess the Nationality
Reflection & Adaptation
100

We expected British people to be very reserved — but in which situation do they suddenly become VERY passionate?

Football (or weather)

100

In the UK, what happens if you accidentally skip a queue?

People won’t shout — but they will judge you silently (and be very annoyed)

100

These people can sit in complete silence together and still feel totally comfortable — no small talk, no problem

Finnish

100

When communicating in the UK, is it more important to focus on words or tone?

Tone

200

You expected a seamless greeting transition but were shocked to find that this French greeting often requires two or three "kisses," whereas back home, one is usually plenty.

La Bise

200

In Australia, what does it actually mean if someone says: “Yeah, nah”?

No (and “nah, yeah” usually means yes)

200

Nationality that shortens every word like arvo (afternoon) and barbie (barbecue)

Australian

200

You realised you’ve truly adapted to French life when you stopped viewing this pre-dinner drinks-and-snacks ritual as a quick "happy hour" and started seeing it as a social event.

Apéro

300

Australians love the beach and relaxing around. What habit is most suprising about their day to day?

Early mornings / very active lifestyle

300

Why would Matt have almost been hit by a car?

In the UK they drive on the Left.

300

Which nationality is famous for apologizing constantly, even for things that aren’t their fault?

British

300

You stop getting to the point and first say "Bonjour" and maybe exchange a few polite words, what is this?

Adapting from German directness to French politeness


400

France is a calm, stable, European academic hub. Reality: This specific political activity happens so often that it’s actually a normal reason for buses to be cancelled.

The demonstrations

400

You truly "lived like a local" when you stopped grabbing quick sandwiches and started dedicating at least an hour to this midday social ritual.

Le Déjeuner

400

This nationality is known for having “no personality” because they adapt to everyone else's style to avoid conflict

Swede

400

What is the most important thing to consider when communicating with people from different cultures?

That communication styles depend on culture, not personality

500

I thought being polite in France means saying “excusez-moi” and asking my question directly. Why was this expectation wrong?

Because in France, you must say “bonjour” first.

500

After finishing a meal, the students sat for 30 minutes waiting for the server to bring the check, not realizing that in France, you must explicitly ask for it.

a clash between 'waiting your turn' and French 'assertive' communication

500

You immediately outed your origin to your French friends when you insisted that these must be fried twice and served with a giant glob of mayonnaise rather than ketchup.

Belgian

500

We were late to this class and finished the assignment two minutes before starting, what is this?

We have adapted to French culture