Silence as power
Unspoken Trauma
Family Dynamics
Voice & Misinterpretation
Real-World Connections
100

How does Matt’s silence give him authority within the Morrison family?

By not explaining his decisions, Matt prevents discussion, making his choices unquestionable and reinforcing his control.

100

Why do the Morrison siblings avoid talking about their parents’ deaths?

The trauma is too overwhelming, so silence becomes a coping mechanism.

100

How does silence shape decision-making in the Morrison household?

Decisions are made by authority figures without discussion or consent.

100

What false assumption does Kate make because Matt does not explain himself?

She believes he does not care about her feelings or future.

100

Where do we see silence replacing communication in modern families?

In families avoiding discussions about grief, finances, or mental health.

200

Why is Matt’s silence often more effective than verbal argument?

Silence shuts down opposition and removes the possibility of disagreement, allowing power to go unchallenged.

200

How does silence affect the siblings’ ability to process grief?

It isolates grief, preventing collective healing and emotional support.

200

Why do younger siblings misinterpret Matt’s silence?

They interpret it as indifference or judgment rather than protection.

200

Why does silence often lead to misunderstanding in relationships?

People fill the absence of communication with assumptions.

200

How does silence relate to expectations of masculinity today?

Men are often taught that emotional silence equals strength.

300

How does Luke’s silence strengthen Matt’s authority?

Luke’s compliance normalizes silence as leadership and prevents alternative viewpoints from emerging.

300

How is silence an “inheritance” in the Morrison family?

Patterns of emotional suppression are passed from the older siblings to the younger ones.

300

How does silence replace emotional intimacy in the family?

Emotional bonds weaken because feelings are never shared or validated.

300

How does Lawson show that silence is never neutral?

 Silence always influences power, emotion, and interpretation within relationships.

300

How does silence operate in institutions like governments or schools?

Decisions are made without consultation, silencing those affected.

400

In what way does silence replace leadership in the Morrison family?

Authority is based on control and responsibility rather than communication and mutual understanding.

400

How does Lawson suggest silence can deepen trauma?

When grief is not voiced, it turns into misunderstanding and long-term emotional distance.

400

How does silence create unequal power between siblings?

Those who speak control outcomes, while those who remain silent lose agency.

400

Compare spoken authority and silent authority in Crow Lake.

Spoken authority invites dialogue, while silent authority enforces obedience.

400

Why are louder voices often mistaken for correct voices?

Volume is associated with confidence and authority, even without truth.

500

Is Matt’s silence an ethical form of leadership? Explain.

It can be seen as ethical because it protects the family, but also unethical because it removes emotional transparency and agency from others.

500

Does the novel suggest trauma can heal without communication? Why or why not?

No, because silence prevents understanding and reconciliation, allowing emotional wounds to persist.

500

How might open communication have changed the Morrison family dynamic?

It could have fostered understanding, shared responsibility, and emotional connection.

500

Is misunderstanding inevitable when silence dominates a relationship? Explain.

Yes, because without communication, emotional intentions are left unclear.

500

How can silence be both protective and harmful in real life?

It can shield others from pain but also prevent understanding and healing.