Conversation Starters
What is a good way to introduce yourself on a first date?
"Hi, my name is [Name], it’s nice to meet you!"
What does it mean when someone is making eye contact and smiling while talking to you?
They are interested and engaged in the conversation.
True or False: It’s okay to hug someone without asking if they are comfortable.
False
True or False: Everyone experiences rejection at some point.
True
Is it a good idea to talk about your ex on a first date?
No, because it can make your date uncomfortable or feel compared.
One open-ended question you can ask to get to know someone better.
"What are some things you like to do for fun?"
Name one sign that someone might not be interested in continuing a conversation.
They look away, give short answers, check their phone, or turn their body away.
What is the best way to know if someone is okay with holding hands?
Ask them, "Would you like to hold hands?" and respect their answer.
If someone says they don’t want to go on a second date, what is a respectful way to respond?
"Thank you for being honest. I appreciate the time we spent together."
What is something you should do before going on a date to make sure you feel ready?
Get dressed nicely, practice conversation topics, and plan how you’ll get to and from the date.
Why is it important to listen when your date is talking?
It shows respect, helps you get to know them, and keeps the conversation going.
What should you do if you’re unsure about how your date is feeling?
Politely ask, "Are you enjoying our conversation?" or "Would you like to talk about something else?"
If your date says they are uncomfortable with something, what should you do?
Stop immediately, apologize if needed, and respect their feelings.
Why is it important to stay calm and respectful if someone says they aren’t interested?
Reacting poorly can make the situation worse, and staying calm shows maturity and respect
Why is it important to take turns talking in a conversation?
It keeps the conversation balanced and makes sure both people feel heard.
What is a good way to keep a conversation going if there is an awkward silence?
You can ask a follow-up question about something they mentioned earlier, share something about yourself, or use humor to lighten the mood.
Why is personal space important in a dating situation?
It shows respect and helps the other person feel comfortable.
What is an example of respecting conversational boundaries during a conversation?
Avoid pressuring someone to talk about something they are not comfortable with, and recognize when they need a break or change of subject.
Name one positive thing you can do if you feel sad after rejection.
Talk to a friend, do an activity you enjoy, or remind yourself that rejection happens to everyone.
What is one way to show kindness to your date?
Compliment them, listen to them, and be polite.
What are some signs that your date is interested in the conversation?
They make eye contact, smile, respond to what you say, and ask follow-up questions.
Give an example of positive body language you can use on a date.
Smiling, nodding, making eye contact, and sitting with an open posture.
Why is it important to respect your own boundaries as well as your date’s?
It helps both people feel safe, comfortable, and respected in the relationship.
How can handling rejection in a positive way help you in future relationships?
It builds confidence, emotional resilience, and helps you learn from the experience.
Give an example of a red flag (warning sign) in a dating situation.
Someone who ignores your boundaries, pressures you, or makes you feel uncomfortable.