Planning
Calling someone after getting contact info.
Two day Rule
Doing this will show respect.
Clean your space before they arrive.
What don't you do during a date?
Give out personal information.
Keep your cool
What is the first thing we do?
Greet your date.
How you plan a date.
5 W's
What do you put away before the guest arrives
Personal items, credit cards, cash, jewelry & private/sensitive items.
What can you do to research your date?
Google, social media & mutual friends.
What do we do next?
Make a casual statement of acceptance.
What happens next?
Invite them in.
Making sure the date is still going to happen.
Confirm 1-2 days before date
What does good hygiene mean?
Shower, grooming, clean clothes, clean teeth, etc.
Why tell your family or friends where you are?
So they know you are safe, they will know you are ok.
Then what?
Shift back to the common interest.
We also...
Introduce them to others.
These are the 5 W's
Who, What, When, Where, How?
What could happen if you dress too provocatively?
Bad impression, bad reputation, mistreatment, etc.
How should we get to our first date?
Get your own transportation.
We also...
Use a cover story.
We must?
Show them around.
If you don't confirm they will...
Forget about date or Lose interest
impress
What should you do on your first date?
Meet in a public place, check in with friends.
What should we do?
Keep it friendly and don't pressure the person & don't ask for an explanation.
Finally...
We offer refreshments and ask them about the plans.