Red Flags
True or False: calling you names, being obsessed with you, and pressuring you to do things you don't want to are examples of Red Flags
True
This is when both people in a relationship feel safe sharing their feelings. What is the couple doing?
Communicating
Sean Covey says don’t let this drive your decisions in dating.
What is peer pressure?
True or False: It's okay to say "no" at any point in a relationship.
What is true?
This type of abuse includes yelling, name-calling, and putting someone down.
What is emotional or verbal abuse?
Name two red flags that might mean a relationship is unhealthy.
What are controlling behavior and emotional abuse? (Accept any valid combo.)
Name two green flags in a healthy relationship.
What are trust and respect? (Accept any valid combo.)
Sean Covey compares dating too seriously too young to this vehicle.
driving a car without a license?
This is how you should respond if your partner sets a boundary.
What is respect it?
This is when someone uses hitting, slapping, or other actions to cause physical harm.
What is physical abuse?
When a partner threatens to hurt themselves if you break up with them.
What is manipulation?
This is shown when your partner respects your boundaries.
Respect
Covey suggests writing this before getting into a serious relationship.
What is a personal mission statement?
If someone makes you feel unsafe or uncomfortable, you should talk to one of these.
What is a trusted adult?
This happens when someone forces or pressures another person into sexual activity without consent.
What is sexual abuse?
When someone frequently puts you down or criticizes you in front of others.
What is verbal/emotional abuse?
This is what happens when people make decisions together and both have a say.
Compromise
What are the four types of relationships according to Sean Covey? (An extra 200 pts if you can explain them)
Win-Win, Win-Lose, Lose-Win, Lose-Lose
This term means both people agree to what’s happening in a relationship.
What is consent?
This kind of abuse involves controlling money, like keeping someone from having access to their own cash.
What is financial abuse?
This is when someone tries to control who you talk to, what you wear, or where you go.
What is controlling behavior?
Letting each other have other friendships and interests shows this.
What is independence?
Covey encourages teens to “choose your _____ ahead of time,” meaning you should set your values before dating.
What is standards (or boundaries)?
Name two ways to show respect in a dating relationship
What are listening and respecting boundaries? (Accept valid answers.)
If someone constantly threatens to “expose” secrets or personal info unless you stay with them, it’s a mix of these two types of abuse.
What are emotional abuse and digital abuse?