PHYSICAL AFFECTION
Name two ways to greet someone.
Wave, smile, nod, or say hello. Physical contact is not required to greet someone.
What does consent mean?
Freely agreeing to something without pressure. For physical contact, ask and respect the answer.
What is a date?
An outing that two people understand to be romantic or potentially romantic. Both people can clarify what it means to them.
Name one thing you should know before meeting your date.
The agreed time and location, what activity is planned, and how you will get there and home.
Name one polite way to start a conversation on a date.
Ask about a hobby, favorite movie, music, game, or another shared interest.
Name three examples of physical affection.
Hugs, holding hands, high-fives, fist bumps, and a hand on someone's shoulder. People have different preferences.
You ask someone for a hug and they say no. What should you do?
Accept the answer calmly. You could say, "No problem!"
Two classmates go to a movie. Does that automatically mean it is a date?
No. They might be friends hanging out. They can ask each other if they are unsure.
Who can help you arrange safe transportation to a date?
A parent, caregiver, or trusted adult. Make a safe plan before leaving.
Your date likes a different movie than you do. What is a respectful response?
Be kind, ask about their interests, and remember that people do not have to like all the same things.
Is holding hands always romantic?
No. It can mean different things depending on the people and situation.
Someone said yes to a hug yesterday. Does that mean yes today?
No. Consent is needed each time, and people can change their minds.
What is one difference between dating and friendship?
Dating usually involves romantic interest, while friendship does not necessarily involve romantic interest. Both require respect.
You are nervous about what to talk about. Name two conversation starters.
"What music do you like?" "What do you like to do for fun?" Other open-ended questions work too.
The conversation becomes quiet for a moment. Does that mean the date is going badly?
No. Quiet moments are normal. You can ask a question, suggest an activity, or enjoy a little quiet.
Your friend likes hugs, but you don't. Is either person wrong?
No. Everyone has different comfort levels. Both people should respect each other's preferences.
A person stays quiet when asked for a hug. Is that a yes?
No. Silence is not consent. Pause and check in without pressuring them.
You like someone but don't know if they like you romantically. What is a respectful way to find out?
Ask kindly and directly, such as, "Would you like to go on a date with me?" Accept their answer.
You and your date have different ideas about what to do. What should you do before the outing?
Talk about the options, agree on an activity, and make sure both people understand the plan.
Your date wants to hold hands, but you do not. What could you say?
"I'd rather not hold hands." You do not need to give a reason, and the other person should respect your answer.
Someone agrees to hold hands but does not want to hug. What does that mean?
Consent to one type of contact does not mean consent to another. Respect each separate boundary.
Your date says, "If you liked me, you'd kiss me." What is the problem, and what could you say?
That statement pressures someone. You can say, "I don't have to do anything I'm not comfortable with." A caring person respects your choice.
Someone agrees to a date. Does that mean you are automatically in a relationship?
No. A date does not automatically establish a relationship or create any obligation.
A person you met online asks you to meet secretly without telling your family or a trusted adult. What should you do?
Do not agree to a secret meetup. Talk to a trusted adult and follow a safety plan. Never share private information or feel pressured to meet someone.
You are no longer enjoying the date and want to leave. What can you do?
Tell the other person you want to end the outing, contact your trusted adult or arranged ride, and follow your safety plan. You are allowed to leave.