The 3 States of Mind
What are Wise, Emotional, and Rational Mind
Why fight reality when we need to accept what it is?
One of these skills can be dunking your head in cold water
TIPP Skill
In this skill we practice having a conversation beforehand and learn to assert and express what we want.
What is DEAR MAN
Believing that the worst possible outcome will always happen
Catastrophizing
Balanced Emotions
What is Wise Mind
Betty looked at both the good and the bad of the situation then made a decision. What skill was Betty using?
Pros and Cons
In what skill do we take a breath, look at the situation and then move forward with a decision?
STOP (stop, take a breath, and proceed)
Interpersonal Effectiveness helps us improve what type of skill?
Communication
Where we assume we know what the other person is thinking
Mind Reading
When we just use the facts
What is Rational Mind
The 5 self-soothe skilss
Touch, Taste, Smell, Sound, Vision
Ted feels angry and his first reaction is to punch someone in the face. Instead he walks away, unlike he's done in the past. What skill is ted using.
Opposite Action
GIVE
What we are doing when we either call someone else or ourselves stupid.
Labeling
What do we do when we put words to our observations?
Describe
Figuring out how to best change a situation
Janice knew ahead of time that the party she wanted to go to would be triggering. Janice came up with a plan during weekend planning that involved going to the party with a friend, having a way to leave the party if she needed to, and what to do if she saw the person she didn't like. What skill did Janice use?
Cope Ahead
These can be both physical and emotional
Boundaries
We take on responsibility or feel guilty for the things we can't actually control
Personalization
Seeing things as what they are. No labels
Non-Judgemental
What do the T and S stand for in ACCEPTS?
Thoughts and Sensations
One part of this skill is to build mastery by doing things we enjoy and become good at it over time.
ABC Skill
What does DEARMAN stand for?
Describe
Express
Assert
Reinforce
Stay Mindful
Appear Confident
Negotiate
Extremes
Black or White thinking