Name a time when you should use a crisis survival skill
When we're having intense pain that cannot be helped quickly
When we are wanting to act on emotion mind urges that could make things worse
When emotional distress might become overwhelming
When we're overwhelmed but need to meet demands
Temperature, intense exercise, paced breathing, and progressive muscle relaxation.
A highly stressful situation which can lead to very negative outcomes is a __________
Crisis
True or false these skills are our first line of defense before moving into other distress tolerance skills.
True. (they are very short lived and work effectively in the moment)
The skill that we can use when we're in emotion mind that helps us stay in control, prevents us from immediately reacting, and helps to get to wise mind
STOP skill
When would you use TIPP skills and how do they work?
When you are extremely emotionally dysregulated and they work by calming down your body sensations.
1) we can feel undeserving, guilty or ashamed.
2) we feel others should be soothing us.
When you picture yourself in detail achieving a goal that you have, you are using this skill
Imagery
When you are mindful of what is happening around you and within you, gather relevant facts about what is going on and what your current options are, you are using this STOP skill.
Observe
The "dive response" is the body's physiological response to submersion in cold water. Your heart rate slows down, blood flow to nonessential organs is reduced, and blood flow is redirected to the heart and brain.
When you engage in a puzzle, like Sudoku, crosswords, or mazes, you are using this skill
Thoughts
Most people spend a lot of time being hard on themselves, when we practice self-soothing techniques we give ourselves what?
Permission to relax when painful or overwhelming emotions occur.
Sneak attack !!! - what are the two different categories of distress tolerance ?
1)Survive crisis situations
2)Accepting reality (we'll cover this next week!)
At what level of distress (1-10) or higher should you use a distress tolerance skill?
7
Sneak attack !!! - what are some of the characteristics that indicate you are in a crisis?
1)Urge to do something you know is ineffective.
2)Noticing your emotions are getting overwhelming.
3) Difficulty connecting with Wise Mind
4) Fight/flight/freeze responses
When you go outside, sit back, sip a cold drink, read a magazine, you might be using this skill
Vacation