Give an example of how to do the following- distract with: Activities, Contributing, Comparisons, Emotions, Push-Away, Thoughts, Sensations
Activities, Contributing, Comparisons, Emotions, Push-Away, Thoughts, Sensations
Make a DBT style Pros/Cons list on the board
Pros/cons of tolerating/not tolerating distress
True/False: Mindfulness is a time to "zone out"
False: Mindfulness is like exercise for your brain, it requires focus and attention. It is not always pleasant or relaxing, especially if you are attending to aversive, uncomfortable, or painful experiences
When would you use "Contributing"? Why is this strategy helpful in that situations?
Refocusing attention from yourself to what you can do for others
Replacing immediate negative events or emotions with more positive ones.
Billy only cusses when staff aren't around to hear him- is he being willful or willing? Explain your answer.
Willful-still not following the rule/not changing self, instead trying to control environment
Examples: VISION: Walk in a pretty part of town. Look at the nature around you. HEARING:Listen to beautiful or soothing music, or sounds of the ocean. SMELL: Smell breakfast being cooked. Light a candle. TASTE: Have a special treat, and eat it slowly, savoring each bite. TOUCH: Take a bubble bath. Pet your dog
Does radically accepting being at PCR mean you like being here? Explain
No....
When would be a time that it's okay to distract ourselves from difficult emotions or situations? Is there ever a time where it's not okay to use distraction?
To regulate self to return back to problem solve or process once more regulated
Give an example of how to use each part of the IMPROVE skill: Imagery, Meaning, Prayer, Relaxation, One Thing at a Time, Vacation, Encouragement
Imagery, Meaning, Prayer, Relaxation, One Thing at a Time, Vacation, Encouragement
How do distress tolerance skills/strategies reduce suffering?
Deal w/ pain in the moment
Trying to compare your current situation or the current crisis to a situation that's worse than the one you're in now.
Ex: You could compare yourself to people who have less than you have or you could think about times in your life when things have been a lot harder or you didn't have the same resources you have now. You're trying to get yourself to sort of say in your mind, 'Could be worse'.
Awareness of distress/needing to use skill, focusing attention on using skill, noticing changes during/after using skill
Making a conscious decision to accept over and over