What does "Pros and Cons" help you decide?
The benefits and cost of a behavior or decision
Whats one short term benefit of avoiding your problems?
You dont have to feel uncomfortable OR anxious
What is Radical Acceptance?
Accepting reality as it is, even when itâs painful
Whatâs one thing you can control in any situation?
Your attitude, reactions, or choices
You studied hard for a test but still got a low grade. What DBT skill could help you accept this?
Radical Acceptance
True or False:Pros and cons is about judging a behavior as good or bad.
False - its about understanding, not judging
Whats one long term benefit of avoiding your problems?
The problem can get worse or harder to fix later
True or False: Radical Acceptance means you approve of what happened.
False â It means you understand reality, not that you like it
Whatâs one thing you cannot control?
The past or other people
You want to skip class to avoid anxiety, but you know it might hurt your grade. What skill can help you think it through?
Pros & Cons
Whats one benefit of writing out your pros and cons instead of thinking them in your head
it helps you think more clearly and make mindful choices
What does DBT call it when you act without thinking about Long Term results
Action on Emotional Mind
Name one thing Radical Acceptance can help with.
Letting go of anger, reducing suffering, or moving forward
Why is trying to control others a problem?
It wastes energy and creates frustration
Your friend ignores your message, and you want to text them 10 times. What should you remind yourself about control?
You canât control them only how you respond
What's one short term pro of acting on urge?
you might feel better right away.
What can help you balance short and long term thinking before making a decision?
Using Wise Mind
What happens when you refuse to accept reality?
You stay stuck in suffering and make things harder
What can you do when you realize something is out of your control?
Accept it and focus on what you can change
You canât change a rule at home, but you can change your reaction to it. Whatâs that called?
your reaction to it. Whatâs that called?Radical Acceptance
it might make things worse or create guilt/regret later
Why is it important to think about both short term and long term effects before acting?
It helps you make choices that support your goal, not just your feelings
Whatâs one way to practice Radical Acceptance in the moment?
Take deep breaths, repeat âit is what it is,â or focus on what you can control
Whatâs a sign youâre focusing too much on things you canât control?
Feeling drained, angry, or helpless
Youâre deciding whether to confront a friend who hurt you. What skill helps you look at both sides first?
Pros and Cons