💭 CATEGORY 1: Pros & Cons Basics
⚖️ CATEGORY 2: Short-Term vs. Long-Term Thinking
🧘🏽‍♀️ CATEGORY 3: Radical Acceptance
🔄 CATEGORY 4: What’s in My Control?
🧩 CATEGORY 5: Real-Life Scenarios
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What does "Pros and Cons" help you decide?

The benefits and cost of a behavior or decision

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Whats one short term benefit of avoiding your problems?

You dont have to feel uncomfortable OR anxious

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What is Radical Acceptance?

Accepting reality as it is, even when it’s painful

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What’s one thing you can control in any situation?

Your attitude, reactions, or choices

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You studied hard for a test but still got a low grade. What DBT skill could help you accept this?

Radical Acceptance

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True or False:Pros and cons is about judging a behavior as good or bad.

False - its about understanding, not judging 

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Whats one long term benefit of avoiding your problems?

The problem can get worse or harder to fix later

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True or False: Radical Acceptance means you approve of what happened.

False – It means you understand reality, not that you like it

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What’s one thing you cannot control?

The past or other people

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You want to skip class to avoid anxiety, but you know it might hurt your grade. What skill can help you think it through?

Pros & Cons

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Whats one benefit of writing out your pros and cons instead of thinking them in your head 

it helps you think more clearly and make mindful choices 

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What does DBT call it when you act without thinking about Long Term results 

Action on Emotional Mind

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Name one thing Radical Acceptance can help with.

Letting go of anger, reducing suffering, or moving forward

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Why is trying to control others a problem?

It wastes energy and creates frustration

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Your friend ignores your message, and you want to text them 10 times. What should you remind yourself about control?

You can’t control them  only how you respond

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What's one short term pro of acting on urge?

you might feel better right away.

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What can help you balance short and long term thinking before making a decision?

Using Wise Mind

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What happens when you refuse to accept reality?

You stay stuck in suffering and make things harder

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What can you do when you realize something is out of your control?

Accept it and focus on what you can change

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You can’t change a rule at home, but you can change your reaction to it. What’s that called?

your reaction to it. What’s that called?Radical Acceptance

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What's one short term con of giving into an impulsive urge?

it might make things worse or create guilt/regret later

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Why is it important to think about both short term and long term effects before acting?

It helps you make choices that support your goal, not just your feelings 

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What’s one way to practice Radical Acceptance in the moment?

Take deep breaths, repeat “it is what it is,” or focus on what you can control

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What’s a sign you’re focusing too much on things you can’t control?

Feeling drained, angry, or helpless

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You’re deciding whether to confront a friend who hurt you. What skill helps you look at both sides first?

Pros and Cons