States of Mind
What skills
How Skills
DBT Concepts
Walking the Middle Path
100

In this state of mind your emotions influence your behavior.

What is emotion mind?

100

When you engage completely in an activity without self consciousness.  

What is fully participate?

100

You see but you don't evaluate as good or bad.  You are focused on just the facts.

What is nonjudgmentally?

100

The full name of DBT.

What is Dialectical Behaviour Therapy?

100

Acknowledging that a person's emotions, thoughts, and behaviors have causes and are therefore understandable.

What is "Validation"

200

In this state of mind you are likely task focused.

What is reasonable mind?

200

The first step in virtually every DBT skill.

What is observe?

200

When you are eating, eat.

What is one-minfully?

200

Use this skill when your thoughts are causing you to feel distressed.

What is Mindfulness of Thoughts?

200

When two opposite perspectives are true at the same time.

What are dialectics?

300

The wisdom within each person.

What is wise mind?

300

Wordless watching.

What is observe?

300

When you focus on what works. 

What is effectively?

300

This skill reduces suffering, increases happiness and helps to increase your ability to control your mind.

What is mindfulness?

300

Name one thing Validation is 'NOT'

What is...Options include -Validation is NOT necessarily agreeing with the other person -Validation is NOT necessarily agreeing -Validation is Not validating what is actually invalid Answers came from IE handout 17 from Walking middle path section.

400

When you are able to consider both your short term goals/urges and also your long term goals. 

What is wise mind?

400

Using only your five senses to label what you have observed.

What is describe?

400

When you let go of willfulness.

What is effectively?

400

What are you not when you have eaten a full bag of potato chips and you cannot remember the flavor?

What is mindful?

400

Name 2 reasons why it's important to validate.

What is...answers could include... -It improves our relationships by showing we are listening and understand -It improves interpersonal effectiveness by reducing anger, negative reactivity and pressure to prove who is right. -It makes problem solving, closeness and support possible -Because invalidation hurts.

500

You hope to achieve this state by practicing the What and How Skills of mindfulness.

What is wise mind?

500

You are in the middle of the dance floor when your favourite song comes on.  Your full attention is only on your experience of dancing.

What is fully participate?

500

When I put aside my phone to listen to my son tell me about his day.

What is one-mindfully?

500

The skill you use when you experience your emotions as they are.  You do not push them away, make them worse or ignore them. 

What is mindfulness to current emotion?

500

Provide an example of opposite sides that can both be true.

What is... examples found on handout 16A and/or other acceptable answers. Examples could include: You are tough AND gentle, you can be with others AND be lonely, The day can be sunny AND it can rain, You can have a disagreement with somebody AND also be friends. etc.