Definitions & Basics
This term describes a pattern of behaviors used to gain or maintain power and control over a partner.
What is domestic violence?
When a boyfriend or girlfriend constantly texts “Where are you?” or “Who are you with?” it’s a sign of this.
What is controlling behavior?
Ignoring an older adult’s basic needs—like food, medication, or hygiene—is known as this.
What is neglect?
When a partner says things like “You’re a man, you can handle it” to dismiss your feelings, it’s this harmful tactic.
What is minimizing or invalidating emotions?
Myth: Domestic violence only happens in this type of household.
What is low‑income?
This form of abuse involves controlling access to money, employment, or financial resources
What is financial abuse?
A partner who gets angry when you spend time with friends is showing this unhealthy behavior.
What is isolation?
This is the main group APS (Adult Protective Services) is responsible for protecting: adults who cannot keep themselves safe due to age, disability, or vulnerability.
Who are vulnerable adults?
When someone hurts you, then says “No one will believe you because you’re a guy,” they’re using this dangerous tactic to keep you silent.
What is intimidation or silencing through stigma?
Fact: Domestic violence affects people of all ages, including this group often overlooked.
Who are seniors/older adults?
Emotional abuse often includes this tactic, where the abuser makes the victim question their reality.
What is gaslighting?
When someone pressures you to send photos or do things you’re not comfortable with, it’s this type of abuse.
What is sexual pressure or coercion?
When a caregiver or family member takes money, property, or personal items without permission, it’s this form of abuse.
What is financial exploitation?
A partner who mocks your masculinity, calls you weak, or uses stereotypes to shame you is using this form of abuse.
What is gender‑based emotional abuse?
Myth: Leaving an abusive relationship is easy. Fact: Victims often face these two major risks.
What are increased danger and retaliation?
This type of abuse involves forcing or pressuring someone into sexual acts without consent.
What is sexual abuse?
When someone threatens to hurt themselves if you break up with them, it’s this dangerous tactic.
What is emotional blackmail?
When a caregiver limits an older adult’s freedom—like restricting visitors, isolating them, or controlling their movements—it’s this form of mistreatment.
What is confinement or controlling behavior?
Many men stay because they worry no one will believe them or take their situation seriously due to this stereotype.
What is “men can’t be victims”?
Myth: Domestic violence is a private matter. Fact: It is recognized as this type of issue.
What is a public health issue?
Insults, threats, humiliation, and constant criticism fall under this form of abuse.
What is emotional or psychological abuse?
When someone apologizes after hurting you and promises to “never do it again,” it’s part of this cycle.
What is the cycle of abuse?
APS (Adult Protective Services) often partners with these two groups to ensure safety and support: one handles legal matters, and the other handles health concerns.
Who are law enforcement and healthcare providers?
Men may stay because they feel responsible for “fixing” the relationship or protecting their partner, a belief rooted in this internalized expectation.
What is the protector role or caretaker pressure?
This legal document can restrict an abuser from contacting or approaching a victim.
What is an order of protection?