Draw the Line!
What is the first step in drawing your line?
What does the circle represent in the DTL logo?
All the things a person may do in their lifetime.
What does the dot represent in the DTL logo?
You
What does the line represent in the DTL logo?
Divides the things you will do from the things you do not want to do.
When changing the subject, what do you need to remember when choosing what to suggest you do instead?
Whatever you suggest must be safe, something you could actually do, something your friend would want to do, and something that will get you out of the situation.
When is it okay to walk away?
Anytime someone makes you feel uncomfortable, continue to pressure you, or if you feel unsafe.
What is the second step for drawing your line?
Body language
How can you change the subject? Give an example of what you could say to change the subject.
"Let's....play video games."
"I would rather.... go to the park."
"Why don't we... order pizza."
"Instead, we should... take my dog for a walk."
Give 3 examples of body language that says "No."
Eye contact, stand tall, firm voice, be confident, hands on hips
What is the third step for drawing the line?
Change the subject
How do you know when someone is telling you "No?"
If they say, "No," they make eye contact, use a serious voice, repeat "No," or try to change the subject.
What is the fourth step for drawing the line?
Walk away
Why might it be hard to tell someone no outside of class?
Do not want to hurt their feeling, afraid friend will be upset if you tell them no, worry they won't want to be your friend anymore.
True or False:
Recognizing an uncomfortable feeling is a signal you are close to the line.
True
How do you recognize when someone is drawing the line with you?
If they are telling you no, their body language says no, they have tried to change the subject, or they walk away.
How can someone get better at telling people no?
Practice!
Put it in your own words.
Explain how this saying relates to peer pressure:
If the shrimp falls asleep, the current will carry it away.
If you do not set and stick with your boundaries, you may end up in a situation you do not want to be in.
What are the 4 steps for drawing your line?
1. Say, "No, I don't/won't..."
2. Body language
3. Change the subject
4. Walk away
Explain how the following saying relates to peer pressure:
It is easier said than done.
It is easy to make a decision about where your boundaries or limits are, but it can be difficult to stick with them if friends are pressuring you to do something.
How do you show someone you are respecting their line?
Stop pressuring them or tell them you are sorry for pressuring them.