Verbal & Nonverbal Comm
Listening Skills
Communication Roadblocks
Positive Approach
100

The use of SPOKEN WORD to share information with each other is this type of communication

What is "verbal communication"

100

The practice of emotionally understanding and considering how the speaker must be feeling is an example of:

What is "empathy"

100

A serious unresolved disagreement or argument

What is "conflict"

100


The exchanging of information 

Promotes a healthy relationship and can also be important to safety 

What is (effective/healthy) "Communication"

200

90% of communication is this type of communication (facial expressions, tone of voice, etc)

What is nonverbal communication

200

The intentional and focused process of fully engaging with the speaker with undivided attention

What is "active listening"

200

Finding fault, judging, or lecturing a person or the character of a person

What is "criticism"

200

To recognize and affirm that a person's experiences, feelings, opinions are understandable (even when you don't necessarily agree)

What is "validation"

300

Communication consists of passing information from one person to another.  The "sender" and "receiver" of a conversation are also known as...

What is 'speaker and listener"

300

A question that starts with "why," "how," or "what." They require a full answer rather than a "yes" or "no" response

What is "an open ended question"
300

A "verbal attack" on a person's sense of self with an intent to insult or abuse (such as name calling, sarcasm, disrespect, swearing, verbal threats)

What is "contempt"

300

Attack this instead of attacking the person.

What is "the problem"

400

When you observe a person based on nonverbal cues such as posture, folded arms, fidgeting, lack of eye contact..." You are noticing this about them...

What is body language

400

When the listener repeats back to the speaker what you think is being said

What is "reflecting"

400

Victimizing yourself to ward off a perceived verbal attack and reverse the blame

What is "defensiveness"

(ie: "gaslighting" is a form of defensiveness)

400

A type of "statement' that focuses on the feelings or beliefs of the person speaking rather than attacking thoughts, beliefs and characteristics of the listener

What is an "I statement"

500

An acronym used to identify when someone is interested in what you have to say... such as "Squarely face, Open posture, etc.  

What is SOLER

500

to make something more clear or easier to understand by asking for more detail or a simpler explanation

What is a "clarifying question"

("to clarify")

500

Withdrawing to avoid conflict and convey disapproval, distance, separation

What is "stonewalling"

500

When a person takes responsibility for his/her own actions 

What is "accountability"