Expected/Unexpected
What should you do
Friends
Big Deal or Little Deal
Feelings
100

You need to use the restroom, but your teacher says, "You have to stay in the classroom. Can you wait until the next break." You decide not to listen and go to the restroom anyways. Is this an Expected or Unexpected behavior?

What is unexpected

100

You keep forgetting to do your homework. What should you do?

Write down your homework.

100

Your friend accidentally spilled their milk, what can you do to help them?

Help them clean it up.

100

My milk is spoiled. (Big deal or Little Deal) What should I do?

What is little deal. Get something else to drink.

100

I cannot find my homework. I know I did it! How do I feel?

What is sad or worried.

200

If you are angry, you can ask your teacher for a break. Is this an Expected or Unexpected behavior?

What is expected

200

If someone is being mean to you. What should you do?

Ask them to stop and if that doesn't work then go to a teacher for help.

200

You want to play with a friend at recess. What should you do?

say, "Can you play with me?"

200

I forgot something in the lunch line. (Big Deal or Little Deal) What should I do?

What is little deal? I can ask to go get it.

200

James stepped on the back of Chris's shoes on purpose in line.  How does he feel?

What is mad. (Use your words to tell him to stop. Teachers will help him)

300

Talking to a friend while they are working quietly on an assignment. Is this an Expected or Unexpected behavior?

What is unexpected.

300

During recess, you see someone being bullied. What should you do?

Tell the bully to stop and if that doesn't work, ask the teacher for help.

300

You want to play with someone, but they say, NO! What should you do?

Ask another friend.

300

Someone is being mean to me and I do not know what to do...(Big deal or Little deal). What should I do?

What is big deal. Ask why they are mad or play with someone else.

300

There is a test today and I didn't study!!! How do I feel?

What is nervous or scared.

400

Refusing to do work because it is too hard. Is this an Expected or Unexpected behavior?

What is unexpected.


Bonus points for whole group for what you can do to fix the situation.

400

My classwork is way too hard for me to do. What should you do?

Ask a friend or teacher for help.

400

Someone is calling you names that you do not like. What should you do?

Ask them to stop.


Bonus points for whole group: What is one coping strategy that you could use if you are upset?

400

My pencil broke! (Big deal or little deal).  What do I do?

Little deal. Get a new pencil.

400

I lost at the game I am playing.  How do I feel?

Upset/Sad/Not Happy


Bonus Points for whole group: What is one coping strategy that you can use.

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