Allowed?
What should you do
Friends
Big Deal or Little Deal
Feelings
100

You need to use the restroom, but your teacher says, "Can you wait a minute please?" You decide not to listen and go to the restroom anyways. Is this allowed? 

No

100

You keep forgetting to bring in your field trip permission slip. What should you do?

Ask your teacher to call/email/text your parent.

100

Your friend accidentally spilled their milk, what can you do to help them?

Help them clean it up.

100

My milk is spoiled. (Big deal or Little Deal) What should I do?

What is little deal. Get something else to drink.

100

I cannot find my homework. I know I did it! How do I feel?

What is sad or worried.

200

If you are angry, you can ask your teacher for a break. Is this allowed?

yes

200

If someone is being mean to you. What should you do?

Ask them to stop and if that doesn't work then go to a teacher for help.

200

You want to play with a friend at recess. What should you do?

say, "Can you play with me?"

200

I forgot something in the lunch line. (Big Deal or Little Deal) What should I do?

What is little deal? I can ask to go get it.

200

James stepped on the back of Chris's shoes on purpose in line.  How does he feel?

What is mad. (Use your words to tell him to stop. Teachers will help him)

300

Talking to a friend while they are working quietly on an assignment. Is this allowed behavior?

No.

300

During recess, you see someone being bullied. What should you do?

Tell the bully to stop and if that doesn't work, ask the teacher for help.

300

You want to play with someone, but they say, NO! What should you do?

Ask another friend.

300

Someone is being mean to me and I do not know what to do...(Big deal or Little deal). What should I do?

What is big deal. Ask why they are mad or play with someone else.

300

There is a test today and I didn't study!!! How do I feel?

What is nervous or scared.

400

Refusing to do work and ripping it up because it is too hard. Is this allowed?

No


Bonus points for whole group for what you can do to fix the situation.

400

My classwork is way too hard for me to do. What should you do?

Ask a friend or teacher for help.

400

Someone is calling you names that you do not like. What should you do?

Ask them to stop. Ignore. Walk away


400

My pencil broke! (Big deal or little deal).  What do I do?

Little deal. Get a new pencil.

400

I lost at the game I am playing.  How do I feel?

Upset/Sad/Not Happy


Bonus Points for whole group: What is one coping strategy that you can use.

500

You're having a difficult morning. You walk into your classroom and yell at a classmate because he took the last chocolate milk. Is this allowed? 

No. Ask staff for another milk and talk to your clinician to help restart your day.

500

You can't figure out a math problem for homework. What should you do?

Answers may vary, but you can tell a grown up, email your teacher, or talk to a friend in your class. 

500

You are trying to talk to your friend about a topic you are interested in but they are not looking at you or asking you questions about it. What should you do? 

Try changing the topic or asking your friend a question about something else- your friend may not be interested in that topic. 

500

I forgot to do part of my homework assignment. Big deal or little deal? 

What is a little deal? I can explain to my teacher what happened. 

500

I am waiting for my mom to get off the phone so we can go to my friend's house. She has been talking for a long time. How do I feel? 

What is I feel frustrated. I can take deep breaths to calm. My mom may be talking about something important.