Bear or Not a Bear
Coping Skills
My Brain & Body
Brave Plan
Maybe/Maybe Not
100

There is a real fire in your house. 

Bear

100

What is one thing you can do when your body feels upset? 

Bubble Breath

100

What do we call it when your brain thinks a bear is chasing you? 

Fight or Flight

100

What is 1 step when trying a new food? 

Bubble breath, STOP, etc
100
Maybe you'll like the food...maybe you won't? 

Maybe...maybe not.

 

Can you handle not knowing for 5 seconds? 

Where is your body--calm or bear mode? 

200

There is asparagus on your plate and you don't like it. 

Not a bear

200

What does STOP mean? 

STOP, breathe, choose what to do

200

What does it mean when your brain has a false alarm?

It thinks something is dangerous when it's not.

200

What can you say to yourself when trying a new food? 

"This is not a bear. I am okay." 

200

Maybe it is your water bottle...maybe it is not.

Maybe...maybe not.


Can you show me one bubble breath while not knowing? 

When can you tell your brain when it is uncertain? 

300

You are not sure if the crackers belong to you. 

Not a bear

300

What do you do FIRST when your brain think it's a bear?

Stop and take a breath.

300

What do we call it when your body is calm and okay?

In the Window/calm zone

300
What do you do before asking mom for help? 

Brave Plan (Bubble Breath, STOP)

300
Maybe you need to ask mom...maybe you don't.
Maybe...maybe not.


What's your Brave Plan before asking Mom? 

400

Your tummy feels weird when you look at a new food.

Not a bear 

400
What do you do BEFORE asking mom for help? 

Try my Brave Plan or Bubble Breath or STOP

400

What do we call it when your brain shuts down or freezes?

Below the window/freeze
400

What are we trying to get your body to do? 

Get back to calm/in the window

400

Why do we say 'maybe, maybe not' instead of asking over and over? 

To help my brain learn it's not a bear. 

To practice not knowing. 

To make the worry smaller.