Name that emotion
Coping skills
Size of the problem
Choices
Patience
100

What emotions is this... :)

happy

100

I take breaths in through my nose and out through my mouth 

deep breathing

100

You see that someone is getting hurt. Is this a big deal or little deal?

Big deal. I need to tell an adult right away. 

100

My sibling is bugging me and our parents are at work, so I decide to go do something on my own for awhile to calm down. Is this a good choice or not so good choice?

good choice 

100

True or false: Being patient means you can wait a long time for something to happen 

True 

200

My body starts to shake and sometimes I feel like I want to run away or hide

scared/afraid 
200

This coping skill can involve the use of headphones.

listening to music 

200

I didn't get what I wanted. 

Little deal, I can use a coping skill if I feel upset. I can remind myself that I can't always have what I want or that maybe I will get it next time.

200

I feel mad so I kick my sister. Is this a good choice or a not so good choice?

not so good choice 

200

Am I being patient?

My mom was talking on the phone but I really wanted to tell her something. I waited until she was off the phone to tell her. Am I being patient?

yes

300

My face gets really red and I start to yell. This happens when someone does something I really don't like.

angry/mad/upset

300

true or false: Using a coping skill can help me handle my big emotions 

true 

300

I soiled my pants at school.

Big deal. I will need to deal with this right away as I am going to smell.  The other kids will notice and might make fun of me.  They may not want to sit beside me or play with me. 

300

I do not like what is made for supper but I eat it anyway. Good choice or not so good choice?

Good choice.

I can't always have my favourite meals but if I keep trying new things, I may learn to like different things.

300

My Dad said that we can do something fun today.  I start asking him about it repeatedly as soon as I wake up in the morning. Am I being patient?

No.

I can ask him once but then have to be patient and wait until he is available to do the fun activity.

400

You just scored the game-winning goal. What emotion are you feeling?

proud/excited 

400

This is something I can do to take my mind off stress. It involves lots of colors.

drawing/coloring/painting 

400
I didn't finish my assignment on time. Big deal or little deal?

little deal, I can ask my teacher for more time 

400

I am frustrated so I take deep breaths. Good choice or not so good choice?

good choice 

400

Mom is upset because the kids have been fighting a lot.  She said that she needs a break and a few minutes alone but I keep following her and trying to talk to her. Am I being patient?

No.

It's important to respect others when they are needing some space and time alone.

500

My heart starts to beat really fast and I feel butterflies in my tummy 

Nervous/Anxious/Scared

500

True or false: Using positive self talk is an unhealthy coping skill to help handle my emotions.

False!

Positive self talk can be a powerful and healthy coping strategy. Ex. "I've got this", "I can do it", "It's going to ok".

500

I am having a hard time going to sleep.

Little to medium deal. I can do some belly breathing to help my body and mind to relax.  I can remind myself that if I relax I will eventually fall asleep.  I can use a soothing object to help me fall asleep.  

500

I feel mad so I call someone a mean name. Good choice or not so good choice?

not so good choice

500

I wanted to eat cake for breakfast but my mom told me I needed to wait for after dinner. I waited until after dinner and ate some cake. Am I being patient?

yes