How are they feeling
Safe or dangerous
Appropriate or inappropriate
Tokens
Parent or friend
100

A friend wants to have ice cream for dinner but his mom says no

The friend will feel sad or disappointed

100

Hitting a ball really hard even though it has already hit someone in the face.

Dangerous, you or someone else could get hurt.

100

Hugging a friend or family member without asking first.

Inappropriate, they may not feel like hugging them e en though you do.

100

What can you do to earn three tokens

Do a worksheet, do art for ten minutes, or play with a friend for ten minutes.

100

You find a dead animal on the ground and want to tell your friends, should you tell an adult and let them handle it or should you tell your friends?

An adult, the dead animal might scare your friends 

200

you are playing soccer with a friend and you win! You’re really excited but your friend is quiet.

Friend will be sad even though you are happy so tell friend good game

200

Feeling sick but you haven’t told an adult, is that safe or dangerous. 

Dangerous, whenever you feel bad you should tell an adult so they can help.

200

Kissing people without asking.

Inappropriate, they may not want a kiss like you do.

200

What can you do to earn one token?

Hand over the iPad without complaining when iPad time is over, or answer two social cue questions.

200

you scrape your elbow and it hurts.

You tell an adult, they can help your elbow feel better.

300

A friend is playing a game with you and two other friends but hasn’t gotten a turn in a while

Sad and lonely, tell everyone he needs a turn too

300

Not listening to an adult because it sounds boring, is that safe or dangerous?

Dangerous, it could hurt you. Ruled are important because they are there to help and protect you.

300

Is it appropriate or inappropriate to take someone’s food without asking?

Inappropriate, that person wanted their food. instead try asking or offering a piece of your food in exchange for the food you wanted.

300

How many times can you play jeopardy in one session for tokens?

One time

300

You want to play with a ball toy that a friend is playing with. Do you talk to a parent or a friend?

Friend, you can ask if they will share or if you can have a turn.

400

You keep hugging a friend without asking and they start to sigh or say mean things

The friend is frustrated because you did not ask if they wanted a hug

400

You are lost and a stranger tells you they know your parents but they don’t look like a police officer. Should you follow them or is it dangerous?

Dangerous, following a stranger you don’t know could be very bad and you should ask them to call your parents on the phone or show you their badge first.

400

Touching a friend in the chest or upper leg.

Inappropriate, those a private places for that person only, including yourself!

400

How many worksheets can you do in one session?

Two worksheets

400

A friend wants to start a fight with you and you have already told them no but they aren’t listening. Do you yell at the friend or do you find an adult.

You find an adult, yelling can make things worse and make the friend even more angry.

500

A friend keeps making fun of you and the way you are playing a game. You become angry and they start to act strange.

The friend is angry and confused he may not know why he is being mean ad of becoming angry tell the friend you need some space.

500

A friend keeps pinching you and you have already told them to stop. The friend challenges you to a fight, what do you say? Is it safe or dangerous?

Dangerous. Fighting is not appropriate and I think we should have some space. 

500

Telling friend about your brothers crush

inappropriate, that is a secret of your brothers and it will make him angry and sad

500

How many conversations can you have with BI in one session.

Three conversations.

500

Your friend is in trouble and needs help, do you grab more friends and try to help him by yourself, or do you grab an adult?

You grab an adult, friends can help with some situations but if it is dangerous or if people can get hurt you need to tell an adult right away,