Anger
Communication
Reactions
Calm Down Tool box
Big feelings
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Is it okay to feel angry sometimes?

Yes! everyone feels angry sometimes, its a normal emotion

100

How do you show someone that you are listening to them?

Make eye contact, and let them speak

100

You just lost a game you really wanted to win, and you feel super angry? 

I am really mad i lost, I need a minute to cool down

100
What can you do when you are struggling with your emotions?

Ask for help from someone you trusts

100

What should you do if you feel really angry?

Take a deep breath, and give yourself a moment

200

What can happen if you don't control your anger?

You might say or do something hurtful that you didn't mean like yelling hitting or getting into trouble 

200

How do you communicate with others when you are mad, respectfully?

Use your words without yelling, or screaming
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A classmate skips your turn during a group activity and you feel frustrated.

Hey, I think it was my turn. Can we fix it together?

200

What is the difference between assertive vs aggressive communication?

Aggressive communication is when you express your needs in a rude way, that may hurt others

Assertive communication is when you express your needs in a way that won't hurt others, while also expressing your needs

200

If you feel like yelling or hitting, what's a safer choice you can make?

Walk away, squeeze a stress ball, or tell an adult how you're feeling

300

What are some signs that you're starting to feel angry?

Your heart beats fast, your fists clench, your face gets hot, or you feel like yelling or crying.

300

How should your body language be, when you are speaking and listening to others?

Low tone of voice, eye contact, and good posture

300

You answered a question wrong in front of the class and people laughed. you felt embarrassed and want to cry

Take a deep breath, tell yourself, Everyone makes mistake and talk to the teacher later if it bothers you

300

What is an example of self care?

Yoga, exercise, drawing, reading, playing, deep breaths, stretching, walking away, talking it out etc..

300

How can you figure out what you're feeling if you're not sure?

Use an emoji or ask yourself, what happened that made you feel this way?

400

What are 2 things you can do to calm down when you're angry?

Take deep breaths or walk away and take a break

400

How can I tell someone I disagree with them?

"I don't agree with you, but I understand what you are saying"

400

Your friend says something that hurt your feelings during recess.

That hurt my feelings. Please don't say that to me again
400

Can dancing make you feel better?

YES!!! Dance it up !

400

What are some things you can say to yourself when you're upset?

"I can get through this, it's okay to feel mad, or i am doing my best

500

What's a helpful thing to say when you're angry at someone?

I feel mad because of can we talk about this when I feel calmer ?

500

How do you communicate your feelings, and needs in a respectful manner ?

By using "I" statements

500
You feel really overwhelmed with homework and you just want to scream or throw something

Put your pencil down, and take a break, and ask an adult for help before going back to it

500

What are the 5 senses in the 5 senses grounding exercise?

What we can see, touch, hear, taste, and smell

500

Who can you talk to when your feelings feel too big to handle alone?

A parent, teacher, counselor, or a trusted adult.