Feelings
Aiyden found out that his pet rabbit died this morning.
Sad, Upset.
If you're sad, what zone are you in?
Blue.
What is Expected Behavior and Unexpected Behavior? Give an example of each.
Expected Behavior: Behavior that follows the rules and norms of the setting you are in (school, home, public)
Unexpected Behavior: Behavior that is not following the rules and norms of the setting you in (school, home, public)
Bob believes in Santa and Armand does not. They start to argue. Is this Conflict or Bullying?
Conflict.
You let your friend borrow your favorite book and when it's returned it's ripped. What do you do?
Tell them that they are welcome to borrow your things but you're hurt that they ripped your book.
Marisol got a 100 on her pop quiz.
Happy.
If you're feeling silly and nervous, what zone are you in?
Yellow.
What is "Whole Body Listening" and can you demonstrate that with your body?
Whole Body Listening is when your eyes, ears, mouth, hands, brain and heart are focused on the speaker to show that you are listening.
Zion tells Nemo that he can't sit with him at the lunch table anymore because no one likes him. When Nemo tries to sit down, Zion pushes him.
Bullying (emotional, physical)
You see a friend handing out birthday invitations but you do not get one. What do you do?
You could either wait to see if you're invited and if you don't think you're invited, you could tell them how hurt it made you feel.
Daniel and Jake just found out that they don't have any more homework for the rest of the year.
Excited.
If you're listening and ready to learn, what zone are you in?
Green.
What is a "thought bubble?"
A thought bubble is a skill to keep a thought that may be inappropriate or hurtful to yourself instead of saying it out loud.
Sophia and Caleb start to fight about a comic they were working on together. They could not decide on the newest character and now they are not speaking to one another.
Conflict.
You are at recess and your friend tells you not to include your other friend in the game you're playing. You feel that your friend is just being mean.
You tell your friend that you don't feel comfortable learning your other friend out. You tell them either your friend can join or you are walking away.
Justin just watched a Chucky movie with the lights off and no one home.
Scared, frightened, terrified.
If you are aggressive and angry, what zone are you in?
Red.
What is Empathy?
Empathy is the ability to put yourself in someone else's shoes and experience how they are feeling.
One student makes fun of another student's birth mark on their face. Now that student does not want to come to school because they are so embarrassed and upset.
Bullying (verbal)
You see a classmate sitting in the corner of the gym during recess. You aren't really "friends" with them but you feel badly that they are alone.
You show empathy and go invite the classmate to play with you and your friends.
Frustrated.
Which zone is the zone where you feel your body starting to lose control?
Yellow.
What is the difference between Conflict and Bullying?
Conflict: Is a disagreement between two people with equal power and the intent is not to harm.
Bullying: When one or more people are purposefully trying to harm someone emotionally, physically, verbally, socially or through the cyber world.
Marisol posts something unkind about another student on Instagram and Snapchat and that student became embarrassed and upset. Now everyone is talking about it.
Bullying (cyber)
You are walking down the hallway when you see a student who has chocolate all over their face. You don't know this student but you don't want them to walk around the school possibly getting laughed at.
You tell the student that they have something on their face and to go to the bathroom mirror to look at it.