Perspective taking
•If your friend is quiet and not making eye contact, they might feel _____.
sad, annoyed, tired
What is the first step in solving a problem?
Stop and identify the problem.
What’s a good way to start a conversation?
Greeting, question, comment.
Flexible thinking means being able to _______.
Adapt / change / try something new.
Name one example of body language.
Facial expression, posture, gestures.
Why might 2 people feel differently about the same situation?
Helps avoid misunderstandings, choose kinder responses, fix conflicts.
You lose a game and feel upset. What is a calm choice you can make?
Deep breaths, take a break, use words, ask for help.
Why is it important to take turns when talking?
So everyone feels heard.
Your schedule changes unexpectedly. What can you tell yourself?
I can handle this / It’s okay to be upset and still cope.
What might crossed arms sometimes mean?
Uncomfortable, closed off (context matters!).
Your teacher gives you corrective feedback. What might the teacher be thinking?
Trying to teach you, not out of spite or to be rude
Your group members are talking over each other. What is one solution?
Raise hand, ask politely, take turns, suggest a list.
Name one topic that’s usually good for school conversations.
Hobbies, weekend plans, sports, pets.
What is one strategy that helps with flexibility?
Deep breathing, positive self-talk, asking questions.
Why are social cues sometimes confusing?
They change, depend on context, not spoken.
You didn't get invited to something. List 2 reasons that are not about you personally.
limited number of seats/maximum capacity, you don't like the event, etc
Why is it helpful to think of more than one solution?
Some solutions don’t work; choices give flexibility.
What can you do if the other person looks bored or distracted?
Change topic, ask a question, end conversation politely.
Why is flexibility important at school?
Schedules change, group work, problem solving.
What can you do if you’re unsure about someone’s social cue?
Ask, observe, wait, use words.
How can thinking about another person's perspective help solve a problem?
helps you see it from their eyes and point of view, helps you compromise
Give an example of a small problem and a big problem.
Small: waiting / Big: safety issues
What is one expected way to end a conversation?
See you later,” “Thanks for talking,” wave.
Give an example of a time where flexible thinking helped you.
personal experience
How can body language affect conversations?
Shows interest or disinterest, feelings.