True or false. In every conflict, there is a winner and a loser.
What is false?
100
Name a person in history who worked to stop discrimination non-violently.
Who is Martin Luther King Jr., Rosa Parks, Jackie Robinson, Susan B. Anthony, etc.
100
Who is responsible for preventing bullying at our school?
What is everyone?
100
True or false. No one else can make you mad.
What is true?
100
Name five felling words.
What are sad, glad, mad, angry, afraid, happy, excited, frustrated, joyful, irritated, bored, lonely, furious, enraged, etc.?
200
True or false. It is possible to deescalate a conflict after the other person has called you names
What is true?
200
Define prejudice.
What is an unfair attitude; pre-judging a person without really knowing him or her?
200
True or false. Bullying is a normal part of growing up?
What is false?
200
Name two physical signs of your body's anger response.
What is fast heartbeat, hot skin, clenched fists, shaking hands, etc.?
200
Which communication style works best in most cases?
What is assertive?
300
What is compromise?
What is when both people win a little and lose a little?
300
Name two types of prejudice.
What are age, gender, racial/ethnic, class, physical, and religious?
300
Name one good thing a target can do about bullying.
What is speak up and tell the bully to stop; be assertive; report the bully?
300
Name two good ways to reduce angry feelings.
What is relax yourself, distract yourself, talk to yourself?
300
Name two characteristics of a passive communication style.
What are little or no eye contact; nervous, apologetic, slumped shoulders; don't stand up for themselves, etc.?
400
What are the ABC's of solving conflicts?
What are attack the problem, not the person; brainstorm together; consider the consequences and choose win-win
400
What is a stereotype?
What is a fixed idea about a whole group of people, for example; all girls are silly, all kids are trouble, all Asians are smart?
400
Name two good things a witness can do about bullying.
What is support the target; report the bullying; provide safety in numbers?
400
Name one thing you could say to yourself to reduce your angry feelings.
What is calm down; they're trying to make me mad, but i won't give them the satisfaction; I can handle this, etc.?
400
Give an example of an I--message.
What is I feel _____ when you _____ because _____. Or
I want _____.?
500
Name the three things you can do to deescalate a conflict.
What is use words like let's, we, our, and together; call the other person by name; relax your body; use a calm voice; ask to hear the other point of view.
500
If someone makes a prejudiced remark, what can you do without making it worse?
What is speak up, change the subject, or walk away?
500
Define bullying.
What is repeatedly hurting, threatening, teasing or frightening someone else in order to feel powerful?
500
Name two good things to do or say when you feel angry.
What is walk away; use an I-message; use humor?
500
Name three characteristics of an aggressive communication style.
What are loud, rude, sarcastic; in your face; name-calling, blaming, threatening; you-messages, pointing finger, shaking fists; glaring eye contact?