Setting a Table
Social Etiquette
Dining Etiquette
Phone Etiquette
100
Which side of the plate does your cup go?
Top right-hand side.
100
What should you say if you bump into someone in public (even if it wasn't your fault)?
"Excuse me." A simple, polite response is always the best response.
100
TRUE or FALSE: It's fine to talk with your mouth full if someone asked you a question.
FALSE - It is never appropriate to talk with your mouth full. If someone asks you a question, wait until you've swallowed to answer. Take small bites, & you'll find it easier to join the conversation.
100
TRUE or FALSE: It is okay to place your cell phone & keys on the table.
FALSE - It is very impolite to keep your phone or keys on the table. They're dirty, take up space you may need for food & are a distraction. Keep it in your purse, pocket, or lap.
200
Which side of your main plate does your bread plate go?
Top left-hand side.
200
TRUE or FALSE: You should never give up your seat in a public space for anyone. Once you take it, it's yours.
FALSE - If you see someone who is less able-bodied than you (i.e. an elderly person, or pregnant woman, etc.), it is polite to give up your seat for them.
200
Where does your napkin go once you've sat down at the table?
In your lap. This helps keeps your clothes clean if you spill, gives you a discreet place to wipe your fingers & hides a soiled napkin from view of others.
200
Should you emphasize (like, love, thumbs up) a message in a group text?
NO. Unless you know for a fact that every single person in the group has the exact same type of phone (i.e. iPhone, Android, etc.), then any emphasis you send just ends up sending the same messages over & over again with the words, "Billy "liked"..."
300
Where do you place the dessert fork/spoon?
Above the main plate.
300
Should you seek permission to post someone's picture on social media?
YES - You do not know everyone's circumstances & should respect their right to choose if they want to put themselves on display.
300
If you need to remove something from your mouth (i.e. bone, gristle, pits, etc.), how do you get it out?
The same way it went in. If you used a fork to put it in your mouth, remove it with a fork. If you used your fingers, you may remove it with your fingers.
300
If you have to take a call at dinner or in a social setting, where should you go to talk?
Outside of the room. But try not to take calls if you don't absolutely have to. It's not very polite.
400
You sit down to dinner & have two forks on the left-hand side of your plate. Which do you use first?
The fork furthest to the left. If you ever have multiples of utensils, always start from the outside & work your way in towards your plate.
400
TRUE or FALSE: Opening doors for strangers, especially women, is outdated.
FALSE - It is ALWAYS the right thing to do to open/hold the door for a stranger. Opening doors for women (yes, even the car door), is a sign of respect. Ladies, if a man offers to get your door for you, let him. It's not about if you are capable, we know you are, it's about letting him show you respect & in turn, showing him respect as well.
400
Your food has arrived. When should you begin eating?
When everyone at the table has their food. If someone is still waiting for theirs, you should wait to begin until it has arrived.
400
TRUE or FALSE: It is okay to be texting or playing a game on your phone while someone is talking to you.
FALSE - Not only is it disrespectful, but it diminishes relationships because you're essentially telling that person they are not as important to you as your game.
500
Where do you put the napkin for each person when setting the table?
Folded nicely in the center of the plate or under the fork(s).
500
Is it appropriate to show up late to a party?
NO - If someone is kind enough to invite you, be kind enough to them to show up on time. To make an even better impression, always bring something with you (i.e. snacks to share or a gift for the host).
500
TRUE or FALSE: You are required to try what is placed in front of you even if you don't like it.
TRUE - It is polite to try EVERYTHING that is placed in front of you. Someone worked hard to make your meal & it is a sign of respect for their efforts. The only exception would be if you are allergic. However, it is your responsibility to be upfront about allergies so this never happens.
500
If someone calls you & leaves you a voicemail, how should you get back in touch with them: Phone call or text message?
With a phone call. You should always respond to people in the same way they reached out to you.
600
Which of these is the correct placement for your utensils when you're finished with your meal?
Option 2 or Option 3 are both acceptable.
600
What two phrases should you use every time you ask for something & are given something?
Please & thank you. There is no easier way to prove you're a polite & decent human than by adding 'please' & 'thank you' to your everyday vocabulary. Try it tonight as you're served dinner EVERY time someone does something for you.
600
How much should you tip your server at a restaurant?
15% minimum, 18% for standard service, 20% for excellent service
It is NEVER appropriate to NOT leave a tip. Servers work hard & make very minimal base pay. Even if the service wasn't great, make sure to leave them something every single time.
600
TRUE or FALSE: Every text conversation you have is completely private, so it's okay to send inappropriate content.
FALSE - NEVER send private or inappropriate content over ANY messaging service. Once sent, the other person has complete control over what they do with your sensitive information & pictures. You DO NOT want to give anyone, even someone you currently trust, this type of control over you. A good rule to follow - when in doubt, don't. If you think there is any reason not to post or send content, then don't do it.