Ch 9
Which is NOT a cost in a relationship
Giving up time with friends
Important for happiness
Makes you listen to music you do not like
True or False: Families have defined rules, and recognized responsibilities
What is True!
True or False... Communication is remedy for all conflicts
What is False!
True or False:
Credibility consist of competence, character, and charisma
What is True!
What is Ms. T cats name
(hint named after a cowboy)
Doc Holiday
The analysis of cost and rewards in a relationship (which determines if we stay or leave) is what theory
Social Exchange Theory
Name 2 of the violence warning signs the textbook covered
Belittling, insulting, ignoring
Controlling your life
Getting Jealous
Reacting w/ anger when sexually frustrated
Getting angry when you change your life
Which is NOT a negative effect of conflict:
Depletion of Energy
Increased negative feeling towards the other
Insight into self
Closing off yourself from the other
Insight into self
The ability of one person to influence what another person thinks or does is what?
Power
What time (roughly) is sunset today?
6:12pm
A theory concerned with relationship development-- focusing on breadth and depth
Social Penetration Theory
What are the 4 hoursemen of the apocalypse
Criticism
Contempt
Defensiveness
Stonewalling
What is the ideal style of conflict?
Collaborating
Name 2 of the 6 compliance gaining strategies
Reciprocation
Commitment
Authority
Social Validation
Scarcity
Liking
What is the name of the dinosuar from the popular show "The Flintstones"
Dino
What are the levels of the social penetration model-- "the layers of the onion" (hint there are 4)
Superficial
Intimate
Personal
Core
What are the 3 couple types
Traditional Couple
Independent Couple
Separate Couple
Refusing to discuss the conflict and listen to the other persons POV is what?
Nonnegotiation
Imagining a time when you had power to make you more successful, confident, and persuasive.. is what?
(Hint: does not work for everyone)
Power Priming
M&M fruit chews would later become what popular candy?
Starbust
Ana wants the security of knowing she will spend each Holiday with her boyfriends family, but she also wants the excitement of doing new things with him from time to time. This illustrates the tension between
Novelty & Predictability
What are the 5 Relationship types we covered?
Friendship
Love
Family
Workplace
Online
How many stages of conflict are there? AND what are the two options for the second to last step?
There are 7 steps. The options for the 6th steps are "ok" or "not ok" .
Name the 3 ways to respond to power plays
Ignore it
Neutralize it
Cooperate
What random gift did Ms. T get in a dirty Santa exchange this year..
(hint you are able to give it a name and she still has it and it is blue)
A beta fish
Her name is Bobert