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100

Happy

Feeling

100
She doesn't like me.

I have other friends that like me.

100

I'm so mad that I scream at my Mom.

I'm so mad so I go to my room for a break.

200

Lonely

Feeling

200

I'm going to do bad on this test.

I am going to try my hardest.

200

Someone is bullying me at school so I refuse to go.

Someone is bullying me at school so I talk to a trusted adult at school.

300

I'm Smart

Thought

300

I never do anything right.

I made a mistake and won't do that again.

300

I'm so frustrated I start to cry.

I'm so frustrated so I ask the teacher for help on the homework.

400

Talking about someone

Action

400

She is talking about me.

She is talking about my new haircut and how good it looks.

400

I'm so excited that I can't sit down at my desk.

I'm so excited that I take deep breaths to calm myself down.

500

They Don't Like Me

Thought

500

I hate her.

Her and I don't like the same things and thats ok.

500

I'm sad so I don't want to talk to my friend.

I'm sad so I tell my friend what is making me sad.