Things we do at Home
What is one daily routine that helps the house run smoothly now?
Any consistent daily routine that provides structure ( e.g., visual routine schedule)
Name one thing from the solution cards that helps calm big feelings.
Any coping strategy identified on the solution cards (e.g., breathing, taking space, asking for help)
What helps kids listen better:
Long explanations or short, clear directions.
What helps Millee feel safe and calm during the day?
Use of visuals, routines, predictability, or familiar supports.
What is one small way you take care of yourself during the week?
Any self-care activity that supports reset, well-being, or stress reduction.
What is one responsibility the kids have taken on in the home?
Any age-appropriate household role or responsibility that the children participate in.
How do you usually know when a child is starting to feel overwhelmed?
Recognition of early signs such as behavior changes, body cues, or emotional signals.
What is one way you give directions now that works better?
Any effective communication strategy (e.g., simple language, visuals, eye level, calm tone)
They increase predictability, understanding, and emotional regulation.
Why is self-care important when caring for young children?
It helps caregivers stay regulated, patient, and effective.
What helps the kids know what is coming next during the day?
Use of routines, visual schedules, or predictable transitions.
What is one strategy you use to stay calm when the kids are upset?
Any self-regulation strategy used by the caregiver (e.g., pausing, breathing, grounding, calming voice)
What helps reduce arguments or tension between siblings?
Strategies that promote fairness, structure, calm responses, or problem-solving.
What is one strength you see in each child?
Identification of individual strengths, skills, or positive talents.
What happens when you are too tired use the skills, and what helps then?
Recognition of burnout and use of reset, support, or simplified strategies.
What is one routine that reduces stress for you the most?
Any routine that increases predictability or reduces daily challenges.
What helps prevent emotions from getting too big?
Proactive strategies such as routine, early interventions, validation, or coping support.
What do you do differently now when kids don't listen right away?
A calm, consistent follow-up response rather than reacting emotionally.
What helps Colt be more successful with focus or attention?
Support such as structure, routines, movement, or clear expectations.
What support or strategy will you keep using after services?
Any learned strategy that promotes consistency and sustainability.
If the schedule starts to slip, what routine would you bring back first?
Any core routine that supports structure, regulation, or smooth transition.
On a really hard day, what helps you reset and try again?
Any healthy reset strategy that supports regulation and follow-through.
What communication change has made the biggest difference in your home?
Any intentional change that improved understanding, listening, or cooperation.
What have the kids taught you over the past six months?
Any reflection showing growth, insight, patience, or learning from them.
What would you tell yourself from six months ago about how far your family has come?
Any reflection acknowledging growth, effort, and progress.