Focus of Coping
EF: Coping Skills
PF: Coping Skills
Negative Coping Skills
Control
100
This is when you focus on seeking advice, emotional aid and/or concrete aid from others.

What is Socaily-Supported Coping

100

List the things you feel grateful for, meditate, picture your "happy place," or look at pictures to remind you of the people, places, and things that bring joy. 

What is practicing mindfulness? 

100

To temporarily stop an activity, work, or study session to rest, eat, drink, or switch to a different task

What is taking a break? 

100

As an example, if you are stressed about your history grade, you might be tempted to spend time with friends or watch TV because that’s less anxiety-provoking than completing the project. But if you never work on your history project, your coping strategies are only masking the problem.

What is avoiding? 

100

Within this framework there are three circles that concentrate on control, influence, and concern. 

What are the circles of control?

200
This is when you need to take care of your feelings when the situation is out of your control. 

What is emotion-focused coping? 

200

You can play with a pet, practice breathing exercises, squeeze a stress ball, use a relaxation app, enjoy some aromatherapy, try progressive muscle relaxation, or write in a journal.

What is relaxation strategies? 
200

The act of expressing a need, question, or struggle to someone else in order to receive support, guidance, advice, labor, or resources that make a task or challenge easier

What is asking for help?

200
This could be seen as social-support focused coping, but in too large of a quantity could take a turn for the worst. 

What is venting? 

200

Things that depend on my own choices, actions, and attitudes

What is the circle of control? 

300

This is when you need to change your situation.

What is problem-focused?

300

Doing yoga, going for a walk, taking a hike, or engaging in a recreational sport 

What is exercise? 

300

Establishing personal limits and guidelines that define acceptable behavior toward yourself, protecting your physical, emotional, mental, and time well-being

What are healthy boundaries? 

300

Using this thing as a hard shutdown button for reality


What is sleeping too much? 

300

These are things where my actions may make a difference, but I cannot guarantee the outcome.

What is the circle of influence?

400

This is when you are trying to see the positive or meaningful aspects of the stressful situation, especially with severe or chronic stressors. (It is sometimes referred to as cognitive reappraisal). 

What is meaning-making focused coping? 

400

Putting on lotion that smells good, spend time in nature, take a bath, drink tea, or take care of your body in a way that makes you feel good such as painting your nails, doing your hair, putting on a face mask.

What is self-care?

400

The process of gathering, writing down, and organizing tasks, errands, or goals that you need or want to complete

What is creating a to-do list? 

400

A) the act of consuming more food or calories than your body needs for physical energy, often continuing past fullness or ignoring natural hunger-regulation signals 

B) the dietary behavior of limiting overall food intake, cutting back on specific calories, or avoiding entire food groups.  

What is overeating/restrictive eating?

400

These are things that may affect me, but I cannot decide or control the outcome.

What is the circle of concern? 

500

This is a multifaceted coping strategy including elements of social support coping, problem-focused coping, and emotion-focused coping, that aims to converse or transform meaning in the face of adversity. 

What is religious-focused coping? 

500

The ability to manage, endure, and ride out emotional pain, stress, or aversive physical sensations without making the situation worse or resorting to impulsive, destructive behaviors

What is building distress tolerance? 

500

The process of consciously planning and organizing how you divide your time between specific activities to increase efficiency, productivity, and effectiveness. 

What is time management? 

500

When you uses they to cope you may temporarily numb your pain, but it doesn't resolve your issues. They are likely to introduce new problems into your life.  

What is drinking and using drugs?

500

Whether I get hired for a job

What is the circle of concern?