Empathy
Coping Skills
Feelings
Triggers
Signs of feelings
100

What is empathy?  

Being able to recognize, anticipate, and understand how someone else is feeling, and respond appropriately.

100

What is a coping skill?  

A coping skill is a behavior/activity that you can use to help yourself manage strong feelings. 

100

Name three challenging or uncomfortable feelings.  

100

What is a trigger, when it comes to feelings?

A trigger is an event that sets off a specific feeling.  

100

What do we mean when we say signs of feelings?

Signs of feelings are the observable behaviors or responses that tell us how you are feeling, such as crying, laughing, yelling, etc.  

200

What does empathic behavior look like?

Being kind, calm, compassionate.  Listening quietly and acknowledging how the other person is feeling.  

200

Define belly-breathing.

Slow, deep breaths that feel like they are even filling your belly full of air.  These kinds of breaths tend to help us feel relaxed and calm.
200

Name three positive feelings.

200

Name something that might trigger anger for you.

200

Name three signs of anger for you.

300

What does empathic behavior NOT look like?

Laughing, making fun of the other person, rubbing it in, fighting, telling them to "get over it," dismissing their feelings or saying their feelings are wrong, etc. 
300

What is your favorite coping skill for anger?

300

Name one feeling that is hard for you to manage.  

300
Name something that might trigger frustration for you.
300

Name three signs of sadness for you.

400

Imagine another kid just broke one of their favorite things.  How could you respond with empathy?  

"I'm sorry that happened."  "I'm sorry, I felt really sad when my favorite thing broke."  "I know that thing means a lot to you.  Can I help you fix it?"
400

What is your favorite coping skill for sadness?

400

Tell me about one time you felt really angry.

400

Name something that might trigger excitement for you.  

400

Name three signs of worry for you.  

500

Imagine your parent is making dinner and is really busy stirring pots, chopping vegetables, taking things out of the oven, and more.  How could you respond with empathy?

"What can I do to help?"
"I know you're really busy, so I'll ask you about this later."

"Would you like me to chop those vegetables?"

500

What is an example of an unhealthful coping skill?

500

Tell me about one time you felt really happy.  

500

Name something that might trigger sadness for you.  

500

Name three signs of being overwhelmed for you.