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100
Saying no to a friends sleepover because you have a full schedule is an example of this boundary type.
Verbal
100
What is the catcher and pitcher called in cricket?
Catcher=wicketkeeper, pitcher=bowler
100
Not allowing someone to continually hit you is an example of this boundary type.
Physical
100
Name two types of bullying
Cyber, verbal, physical, emotional
100
Leaving a particular place/conversation because you know you’re in a bad situation is an example of this boundary type.
Geographical
200
Ending a relationship because someone continues to say hurtful things about you is an example of this boundary type.
Emotional
200
Name two aspects of a good goal
Reasonable, attainable, specific, measurable, includes accountability
200
Why do people often prefer social media vs. person to person conversations?
Control of the conversation, Doesn't have to be in real time, can edit and delete
200
What boundary problem type can't hear no
Controller
200
What boundary problem type can't say yes
Nonresponsive
300
If you don’t study, you shouldn’t expect to pass is an example of this boundary type.
Reality/Truth
300
What boundary problem type can't say no
Compliant
300
What boundary problem type can't hear yes
Avoidant
300
What are three incorrect ways that people often deal with their problems?
blaming someone else, making excuses, avoiding them
300
What are three basic hockey positions?
Goalie, right wing, left wing, center, defensemen
400
Name four things that we are responsible for
our feelings, our attitudes/beliefs, our behaviors, our choices, our limits, our gifts/talents, our thoughts, our desires, love
400
What is the Goldilocks Effect?
Can’t get enough of each other, only if we can have each other at distances and in amounts we can control
400
Stepping away from a project and coming back to it later because you need to think more clearly is an example of this boundary type.
Time
400
What is the definition of bullying from the notes?
Bullying is aggressive behavior that is intentional and that involves an imbalance of power and strength.
400
Name 4 basic positions in soccer
goalkeeper, defenders, midfielders, left/right wings, forwards
500
What was Tim Keller's quote (from the notes) and what does it mean?
Sin infects us all, and so we cannot simply divide the world into the heroes and villains. People may appear to be a hero but in reality nobody is basically/naturally good because we are all sinners.
500
The illusion of companionship includes what three things
We can put our attention wherever we want it to be, we will always be heard, we will never be alone
500
What are two reasons (from the notes) that people often use for not creating or sticking to boundaries?
They are afraid of losing a relationship, they feel guilty because they have been told that boundaries are selfish
500
What are compliant avoidants?
People who don't have boundaries where they should and do have boundaries where they shouldn't.
500
What are three solutions to being "connected but alone?"
1. Learn to think of solitude as a good thing 2. Learn to allow yourself time to “upack” your emotions without “plugging in” 3. Realize that companionship/friendship is messy and can only be built and enjoyed fully through spending time with someone in person