Flirting 101
Body Language
Flirt or Fail
Red flags
100

 (Yes/No):
 Can someone flirt just for fun, without wanting to date?

Yes. Not every wink is a wedding proposal.

100

Yes/No Is smiling a good way to flirt?

Yes. It’s the universal way of saying “I’m interested” without the awkwardness of saying it out loud.

100

Can you flirt without words?

Yes. Body language speaks volumes

100

(Yes/No):
 Is texting someone nonstop a good way to flirt?

NO

200

(True/False):  If someone laughs at your joke, they’re definitely flirting.

(True/False):

200

(True/False):
Staring at someone without blinking is a solid flirting strategy.

False. You’re flirting, don't challenge them to a staring contest.

200

True or False - teasing someone lightly can be a smooth flirting move. 

True - just don't make fun of them all the time

200

(True/False):
It’s okay to touch someone while flirting without asking.

FALSE

300

You’re chatting with someone and they start smiling a lot. What’s your next move?

Keep the conversation going—smiles are good signs. Just don’t ask them to marry you yet.

300

You catch someone glancing at you multiple times. What could that mean?

They could be flirting—or just trying to figure out if they know you from somewhere. Either way, say hi

300

You make a joke, but the other person doesn’t laugh. Do you: A) Apologize, B) Laugh at yourself, or C) Run away?

A: Laugh it off!

300

You’ve been complimenting someone a lot, but they seem uncomfortable. Should you: A) Keep going, or B) Back off?

A: Back off. Compliments are great, but only when the other person appreciates them. Overdoing it is like offering them candy when they’re already full.

400

Someone compliments your shirt. How do you respond?

Play it cool—thank them and maybe compliment something back, like their style

400

You’re not comfortable with eye contact but want to show interest. What’s another option?

A friendly wave, a smile, or casual conversation.

400

You try to tease someone lightly, but they don’t seem to get it. How do you recover?

Quickly switch to something positive, like a compliment.

400

You’re talking to someone, but they start backing away. Do you: A) Keep stepping closer, B) Give them space, or C) Pull out a megaphone so they can hear you better?

A: B. Space is a nonverbal way of saying, “I’m not feeling this.” Respect it and move on.

500

You’re at a party, and someone gives you a wink. What should you do next?

Wink back if you’re feeling bold, or strike up a conversation.

500

Someone leans in while talking to you. What should you do?

If you’re comfortable, lean in a bit too. If not, step back politely.

500

You’ve been chatting for a while, but the other person isn’t really flirting back. What’s your move?

Take the hint and back off. Flirting’s a two-way street, not a one-person show.

500

During a conversation, Taylor asks Sam multiple questions but receives very short or uninterested responses in return. What should you do in this situation?

Consider moving on and stop flirting