Self Control
Emotional Impulse Control
What is EIC?
Give kid reasons
What is one way to encourage good behavior?
Instruction to set your child up for success
What is corrective teaching/preteaching
Quiet time
What is a consequence for poor conversation skills?
One way for parents and children to work together to organize their lives, teach expectations, do fun activities, share information, and discuss problems that need to be resolved
What is a family meeting?
Parents or Children
Who can lose their EIC?
Use effective praise
What is one way to promote repeating good behavior?
When children do things they shouldn't, don't do what they should, or when they engage in unsafe or dangerous behavior
When should you use corrective teaching?
A set of behaviors that assist people with getting along with others effectively and pleasantly
What are social skills?
Be consistent, use them, realistic, follow through
What are keys to using consequences?
Tantrum
What is another name for EIC?
Benefit to child, negative outcome, concern for others
What are the three types of reasons?
Remain calm, stick to one issue at a time, give a chance to earn something back, be consistent, adapt to each child
What are the keys to corrective teaching?
taking a deep breath, relaxing muscles, counting to ten, sharing your feelings, and resolving a situation
What are the steps to staying calm?
Positive and Negative
What are two types of consequences?
Take 5, go to a quiet place, breathe, stay calm
How do you maintain EIC?
Keys to effective praise
What are praise frequently, consistently, small steps, whenever possible
Stop, describe problem behavior, give negative consequence, describe desired behavior, give a reason, practice
What are the steps to corrective teaching?
when your child is facing a new situation or when your child has had difficulty in a past situation that may occur again
When do you use preventive teaching?
Anything that can be seen, heard, or measured
What is behavior?
When a child/teen has an extreme sudden intense emotional outburst and/or won't respond to corrective teaching
When should we teach self control to a child/teen?
Show approval, describe positive behavior, give a reason, give a positive consequence
What are the steps to effective praise?
A way to keep the family safe during intense situations
What is a Safe Home Plan (aka 5 second spot)?
When you describe the desired behavior, give a reason, and practice
What are the steps to preventive teaching?
TIME - Talk, Instruct, Monitor, Encourage
What is Positive Discipline?