Community Building
An example of community building in the virtual world
Games, circles, check-in/out, breakout rooms
Who has done restorative practices for thousands of years?
Indigenous peoples around the world
What is empathetic listening.
Listening to understand
How do you know who goes nect when in circle?
Circle order
What device is second Kaia on?
An iPad
What is community building?
Community building is getting to know each other and creating a positive relationship so that we can get things done while also having fun
Student gets detention.
Acknowlege, repair and transform.
Name 3 listening barriers
Interrogating - “What exactly were you thinking coming so late today?”
Advice giving - “Why don’t you just...”
Consoling, or reassuring - “Don’t worry. You’ll do fine.”
Minimizing - “At least you didn’t get seriously hurt in the accident.”
Storytelling - “This reminds me about my friend’s situation...”
One-Upping - “That’s nothing, did you hear what he said to me...”
Stealing the limelight - “I’m going through the same thing. I’m...”
Judging - “You could have responded better.”
Shutting it down - “Everything will be better tomorrow.”
What is the role of the Circle Keeper?
Sets the tone for the circle
Gives the Introduction and Closing
Comes with prepared questions
Helps maintain safe space—reviewing the circle agreements when necessary
Helps create connections between points that are brought up in the circle
Models by giving own responses and listening
What type of pet does Kaia have?
Cat
A game we've played together
Red & Blue
Relay Race
Name 2 proactive restorative practices
Community building and restorative communication
Before you are restorative with others you must..?
Know Your Identity, Privilege and Bias
Name 3 elements of a circle. (ex. circle keeper)
Talking Piece
Center Piece
Circle Guidelines
Questions
Opening and Closing
Kaia is addicted to..?
Tik Tok
One way we build community that is not playing games
Check-ins or Check-outs
What are the 3 major actions in RJ
Acknowledgement of the harm that was caused
Repairing harm done to and by all parties involved (includes getting to the root issue of why conflict happened in the first place)
Transformation which are changes that everyone agrees to so this conflict(s) doesn’t reoccur.
When listening empathetically what 2 things do you need to listen for?
Feelings and needs
Name 2 differnt kinds of circles
Check-in circles
Talking Circles
Conflict Circle
In high school, Kaia beat Lane Tech in...?
Debate
5 aspects of facilitating a game
Name of game:
2-3 clear rules of the game:
Goal of game:
Any questions?
Go first to model:
Restorative Justice is a philosophy founded on..?
The belief that relationships are the glue that hold our communities together.
WHen talking about active listening what does BOARS stand for?
Body Language
Open-ended Questions
Affirm the speaker
Reflective statements
Summarize
Name the 4 circle guidelines.
Honor the Speaking Order
Sharing is voluntary.
Speak and listen from the heart
Confidential
What is Kaia's height?
5'8