Media Caused Fear
What parent fear does Lenore think is exaggerated?
Abduction by strangers
What did kids commonly do on their own?
Walk to school without an adult
What nickname is Lenore get called through the media?
America's Worst Mom
What is a benefit of giving kids freedom?
Builds confidence
Would Lenore let her nine year old ride the subway alone?
Yes- but only the child shows responsibility and readiness
How does media skew statistics of child danger?
They use rare, worst case stories in order to create panic.
How does Lenore contrast childhood freedom now vs then?
Kids rarely play outside unsupervised
What common criticism did Lenore get?
She was irresponsible or she endangered her son.
What "soft skill" do kids gain from independence?
Problem solving or decision making
Would Lenore let a child walk to a friend's house alone?
Yes- if it is reasonably safe and the child knows the route.
What is an effect of fear-based reporting on children?
Leads to parents restricting children
What common outdoor activity was once normal, but is now considered unsafe?
Exploring unsupervised
How did Lenore respond to critics?
She defended informed independence and pushed for risk
How does freedom impact a child's confidence?
They learn to handle challenges
Would she give kids the key to the house?
Yes- if they are capable of safely using them
What is a consequence associated with the constant flow of "scare" headlines?
Parents believe that unlikely dangers are unavoidable
What chores did kids manage to do on their own?
Walk the dog, mow the lawn or cooking meals
What long-term fallout did the controversy cause?
Intense media coverage and public debate when it comes to children's freedom
How does independence affect building decision skills?
Kids get to practice choosing and dealing with the outcomes
Would she allow crossing a busy street alone?
If the child has been taught rules and judged mature enough
What did Lenore say is the biggest effect of exaggerated headlines?
Paralyzing fear that robs kids of normal experiences
What difference is there between adult-led play and child-led?
Child led play encourages creativity, problem-solving and risk-taking
Give one example of national backlash that Lenore faced?
TV segments and articles condemning her
What does self-reliance teach regarding responsibility?
That actions have consequences and how to manage them
Would she let a child use public transport after dark?
Maybe- with proper preparation and awareness