Making Friends
T or F : Your Family members can be your Friends
TRUE
T or F : It's a great idea to invite your friends over to stare at the wall?
FALSE
T or F : IF someone is using something that you want to use, it is okay to just take it from them
FALSE
T or F : It is unfair to expect a best friend to be your only friend.
TRUE
T or F: You will NEVER have a fight or argument with a friend or family member
FALSE
No one wants to be friends with someone who is_______________.
Mean, grumpy, negative, rude
Don't make___________ that you don't intend to keep
Promises
If you make a promise, keep it!
When taking turns, ________________ gets to play
EVERYONE
When you want something that someone else has , and you are mad about it, this is called being __________.
JEALOUS
when you are fighting with someone it makes you feel___________-
Angry or Sad
What are the first 3 things that you do when making a new friend
Introduce yourself with a greeting
Give a REAL compliment
Make small talk
Just like cars need to be maintained ( cleaned, gas, fixed when broken) so do friendships. List 3 things you can do to maintain a friendship
Accept your friends for who they are
Respect your friends feelings
Spend time with your friend
Be honest
Listen
Admit when you are wrong and apologize
List 3 different situations when you would take turns
playing games
working on group projects
having conversations
List 3 ways you can handle it in a positive way, if your friend makes plans with someone else
be a good sport
tell your friend that you hope they have a good time
find something else to do
List 3 unhealthy way to solve a problem and then 3 healthy ways to solve a problem
Unhealthy
getting angry, yelling, calling names, hitting
Healthy
talking about it, compromises, getting advice, spend time away
What should you do?
There's a new girl/boy who just moved in down the street. What would you do?
Smile and introduce yourself
give them a compliment
make small talk
discover common interests
make a plan
What should you do?
Your friend is upset because they are sick and are going to miss your birthday party
Listen to your friend and respect their feelings- tell them NICELY that everything will be ok
Offer to bring them a piece of birthday cake
Make a plan to get together after they are feeling better
What should you do?
You and your brothers/sisters want to make some cookies. This involves is baking, cleanup, and eating. What should you do?
Take turns measuring and stirring
asking politely if you can have a turn
clean up together
share the cookies equally
What should you do?
Your friend gets invited to play soccer with some other kids at recess
ask if you can play too
tell your friend to have fun and you will play with them later
go and play with somebody else
What should you do?
You and a friend get together to hang out. You can't decide between Bowling or going to the movies. What should you do?
Talk about the options
Make a compromise
get some help from someone else if you can't work it out together
What should you NOT do?
There's a new girl/boy who just moved in down the street. What would you NOT do?
Be shy and ignore them
say Hi with a grumpy face
leave them out when everyone is playing together
What should you NOT do?
Your friend is upset because they are sick and are going to miss your birthday party
Get mad and yell at them for not coming
tell them that you can't be friends
What should you NOT do?
You and your brothers/sisters want to make some cookies. This involves baking, cleanup, and eating. What should you NOT do?
take the mixer away from someone without asking
do all the measuring yourself
refusing to help clean up
take 3 cookies when everyone else only gets 2
What should you NOT do?
Your friend gets invited to play soccer with some other kids at recess.
get Really jealous and tell your friend that you won't be friends with them anymore if they go play soccer
make them feel guilty for not playing with you
throw a fit or say mean things
What should you NOT do?
You and a friend get together to hang out. You can't decide between Bowling or going to the movies. What should you NOT do?
argue and yell at each other
say " if you don't do what I wanna do then I'm not going to hang out with you"