Foundations of Friendship
What is one important quality of a good friend?
trust, honesty, respect, kindness, support
Your friend encourages you when you're having a bad day. Is this a healthy friendship behavior?
Yes! It shows care and support.
What is one way to show someone you're listening when they're talking?
Make eye contact if comfortable, put distractions away, or let them finish speaking.
You see someone sitting alone at lunch. What's one thing you could do to make them feel included?
Invite them to sit with you or start a conversation.
What does it mean to have a boundary in a friendship?
A limit that helps you feel safe, comfortable, and respected.
True of False: You have to like all the same things as someone to be friends with them.
False! Friends can have different interests and still have a strong connection.
A friend makes fun of you in front of others and says, "I'm just joking." Is this okay?
Not necessarily. Jokes shouldn't make someone feel embarrassed or hurt.
What does it mean to communicate honestly with a friend?
Being truthful about your thoughts and feelings while still being respectful.
Your friends want to play a game you don't enjoy. Is it okay to suggest something different?
Yes! It's okay to share your interests and preferences.
Is it okay to tell a friend you don't want to share something personal?
Yes! You get to choose what you share.
What does it mean to be a reliable friend?
Someone others can count on to keep their word and be there when they need them.
Your friend gets upset whenever you hang out with other people. What might this be a sign of?
Jealousy or controlling behavior. Healthy friendships allow people to have other friends.
Your friend seems upset, but they haven't told you why. What could you say?
"Hey, you seem a little upset. Do you want to talk about it?"
Your friend shares something personal with you. What should you do with that information?
Respect their privacy and don't spread it around. If someone may be in danger, tell a trusted adult.
Your friend asks to look through your phone, but you aren't comfortable with that. What can you say?
"I'm not comfortable with that. Please respect my privacy."
Why is it important to accept your friends for who they are?
It helps people feel comfortable being themselves and feel like they belong.
A friend tells you that you have to agree with them or they won't be your friend anymore. Is this healthy?
No. Friends should respect each other's opinions and choices.
If your friend does something that hurts your feelings, what is one way you could let them know?
Be honest and respectful. For example, "I felt left out when you didn't invite me to play."
Your friend is being left out of a group conversation. What could you do?
Include them by asking their opinion or making space for them to join.
Why is it important to have friendships outside of just one friend or group?
It gives you opportunities to meet different people and build more connections.
Can you be friends with someone who has different opinions, interests, or backgrounds than you? Why?
Yes! Differences don't prevent friendship. Respect and understanding help build connections.
Your friend keeps pressuring you to do something you don't want to do, even after you've said no. Is this a healthy friendship? Why or why not?
No. A good friend respects your choices and boundaries, even when they disagree with you.
Why is listening just as important as talking in a friendship?
You and a friend have a disagreement, and neither of you agrees with the other. What is one way you could work through it?
Listen to each other, explain your feelings, respect differences, and look for a solution together.
What should you do if a friendship consistently makes you feel bad about yourself?
Think about what you need, communicate your feelings if it's safe, set boundaries, and talk to someone you trust.