TV Shows
TRUE/FALSE
Buddy or Bully
Friendship in the Cafeteria
Cues/Coping
100

Who is SpongeBob's best friend?

a. Sandy

b. Patrick

c. Mr. Krabs 

Patrick

100

You should only be friends with those who live in a big house.

FALSE We know that the character traits or the personal qualities that make each person unique are what is most important! Not how much they have!

100

You tell someone who trusts you and often listens to you, to yell out a funny word when you are supposed to be quiet. You are being a... (buddy or bully)

Bully.

100

The follow is not an example of friendliness in the cafeteria 

A) Include others in conversation 

B) Talk loudly and interrupt your peers

C) Ask the people around you about their day. 

D) None of the above

B) Talk loudly and interrupt your peers

100

You keep trying to do a math problem and feel frustrated because it isn't correct. What should you do?

Take a break and try again, take deep breaths, raise your hand and ask for help.

200


In the show The Rugrats, who is Chuckie's best friend?

a. Jorge

b. Tommy

c. Taylor

Tommy 

200

Friends should be good listeners.

True Doesn't it feel great to have a friend actively listen to what we are telling them? This means they are giving good eye contact, nodding, or making comments connected to what you are saying.

200

You see someone sitting by themselves other kids are laughing and looking at them. When you think about it, you are concerned that they were being teased. You tell a Teacher. You are being a buddy or bully...

Buddy

200

Your table is getting ready to be dismissed for lunch and you notice that there is a lot of garbage on the floor and on the table. You should...

A) Leave it there because someone else will clean it up. 

B) Ask everyone at your table to help pick something up to throw away. 

C) Eat it because you are still hungry.

D) racial discrimination

B. Ask everyone at your table to help pick something up to throw away.

200

Demonstrate how you would introduce yourself to a new peer/friend?


Hi, my name is ____, what is your name?

300

Who is Batman's best friend?


a. Robin

b. Jackie

c. Franklin

Robin

300

A good friend only includes you in the things that they do, and never anyone else.

False It's important to be kind and respectful to everyone. If someone is interested in a game we are playing at recess, that is a compliment! Healthy friendships involve talking and playing with other kids, not just with each other.

300

Your friend tells you that they asked another student over for a playdate and are going to leave you out on purpose. They are being a... (buddy or bully)

Bully -Be a Buddy, not a Bully!

300

You're eating lunch with your friends and one of them calls you bossy. That makes you feel sad. What should you do? 

A) Throw something at them. 

B) Get mad at them. 

C) Use an I-statement to tell them that hurt your feelings.

C) Use an I-statement to tell them that hurt your feelings. "When you call me bossy, that hurts my feelings. Is there something I did that made you feel that way? If so, please tell me instead of calling me names."

300

What can you do if you are feeling sad at school?

Talk with a friend, do some deep breathing, think of your happy place.

400

Scooby Doo and Shaggy are best friends. 


What do they have in common?


They both love food!

400

A good friend should always agree with what I say.

False

400

What should you do if a friend is being a bully. a) Ignore it. b) Report it to a responsible adult. c) Join them in bullying the other kid.

b) Report it to a responsible adult. Be a Buddy, not a Bully!

400

What are two ways that you can show kindness and be friendly to others in the lunchroom?


Acceptable answers: 

Clean up after myself, Follow the lunchroom expectations, interact appropriately with peers 



400

Somebody shoves you down in the hall and laughs. What is the best choice to make?

Tell them that's not okay, talk to the teacher, stay away from them, etc.

500

Name 3 of Mickey's friends:

-Donald Duck

-Daisy Duck

-Minnie mouse 

-Goofy

-Pluto


500

A good friend should always keep your secrets...even if it's hurtful.

False. It depends on the size of the problem. IF your secret is a big problem and you might need help, then your friend would be acting in good conscience if they urged you to talk to an adult, or if they talked to an adult on your behalf. If your secret is a small problem but perhaps something unkind you've said, then it may be best for your friend to keep it to themselves. Remember, before you pass it on... THINK: Is it TRUE Is it HELPFUL Is it IMPORTANT Is it NECESSARY Is it KIND? If not, keep it to yourself.

500

What should you do if your friend is mad at you and talking about you negatively? a) Gossip about them. b) Confront them and ask them to stop. c) Go online and post something mean about them.

b) Confront them and ask them to stop. Be a Buddy, not a Bully!

500

When someone spills something or drops their tray you should:

A) Laugh and point

B) Ignore them

C) Help them clean up 

C) Help them clean up

500

What can you do if you are feeling very energetic and having a hard time settling down at school?

Ask if you can take a break/drink of water, take deep breaths, do a mindfulness activity, etc.