Making Friends
What’s one thing you can do to start a conversation with someone new?
Ask them a question about something you both are doing, like "Do you like this class?" or "What games do you like to play?"
What’s one way to make your friend feel appreciated?
Tell them you enjoy spending time with them, or give them a compliment.
What’s one way to tell your friend you’re upset without hurting their feelings
Use “I” statements, like "I feel hurt when this happens," instead of blaming them.
What does being loyal to a friend mean?
Standing by them, supporting them, and not talking behind their back.
What are personal boundaries in a friendship?
Limits that you set for how you want to be treated or what you’re comfortable with in a friendship.
Name a place or situation where it’s easy to make new friends.
School, sports teams, after-school clubs, or online gaming communities.
How do you show support when your friend is upset?
Listen to them without interrupting, offer kind words, or ask if there’s anything you can do to help.
If you and your friend have a disagreement, how can you work it out?
Talk it out calmly, listen to their side, and find a compromise that works for both of you.
Why is trust important in a friendship?
Trust makes you feel safe with each other and lets you share things without fear of being judged or betrayed.
How can you tell a friend that you need some space without hurting their feelings?
Politely say, “I need some time to myself right now, but we can hang out later,” or explain that you have other things to do.
How can you show someone that you are interested in being their friend?
Smile, make eye contact, ask them about their interests, and invite them to hang out.
Name three ways to show that you’re a trustworthy friend.
Keep their secrets, be reliable (do what you say you’ll do), and stand by them in tough times.
What should you do if a friend says something that hurts your feelings?
Let them know how their words made you feel, and give them a chance to apologize or explain.
How can you rebuild trust if it’s been broken with a friend?
Apologize sincerely, take responsibility for what happened, and show through actions that you can be trusted again.
What would you do if your friend keeps pushing you to do something you’re uncomfortable with?
Firmly say no and explain that you’re not comfortable doing it. If they don’t respect your answer, you may need to reconsider the friendship.
What are three qualities you look for in a new friend?
Kindness, honesty, and someone who shares similar interests.
What would you do if you noticed your friend was being left out?
Invite them to join your group, or ask them if they want to hang out with you.
How can you apologize to a friend when you’ve made a mistake?
Say you’re sorry and acknowledge what you did wrong. Be sincere and let them know you’ll try not to do it again.
If you learn a secret about your friend, when is it okay to share it?
Only if it’s a serious situation where someone’s safety is at risk, otherwise you should keep it private.
How do you set boundaries with a friend who wants to spend all their time with you?
Let them know you care about them but also need time for yourself or other friends. Be honest about needing balance.
What’s one thing that might make it difficult to make friends, and how could you work on it?
Being shy might make it hard to start conversations. To work on it, you could practice introducing yourself or think of questions to ask ahead of time.
How can you balance spending time with friends while also taking care of your own needs?
Make sure to communicate with your friends when you need some alone time or have other things to do, and plan specific times to hang out.
What can you do if your friend doesn’t want to talk to you after a conflict?
Give them some space, but let them know you're still there for them when they're ready to talk.
What would you do if you saw your friend doing something wrong but didn’t want to betray their trust?
Talk to them privately about it, explain why it’s wrong, and encourage them to stop or get help.
What should you do if a friend doesn’t respect your boundaries?
Remind them about your boundaries and explain why they’re important. If they still don’t respect them, you might need to distance yourself or talk about the future of the friendship.