Making Friends
What’s one thing you can do to start a conversation with someone new?
Ask them a question about something you both are doing, like "Do you like this class?" or "What games do you like to play?"
What’s one way to make your friend feel appreciated?
Acceptable answers include: give them compliments, thank them when they do something nice for you, include them in activities, call them, support them, etc.
What’s one way to tell your friend you’re upset without hurting their feelings
Use “I” statements, like "I feel hurt when this happens," instead of blaming them.
Name a place or situation where it’s easy to make new friends.
School, sports teams, after-school clubs, or online gaming communities.
How do you show support when your friend is upset?
Listen to them without interrupting, offer kind words, or ask if there’s anything you can do to help.
If you and your friend have a disagreement, how can you work it out?
Talk it out calmly, listen to their side, and find a solution that works for both of you.
How can you show someone that you are interested in being their friend?
Smile, make eye contact, ask them about their interests, and invite them to hang out.
Name three ways to show that you’re a trustworthy friend.
Acceptable answers include: be supportive, listen to them, don't talk about them when they are not around
What should you do if a friend says something that hurts your feelings?
Let them know how their words made you feel, and give them a chance to apologize or explain.
What are three qualities you look for in a new friend?
Answer can include: kind, honesty, funny, helpful, thoughtful, caring, good listener, polite, loyal, respectful, etc.
What would you do if you noticed your friend was being left out?
Invite them to join your group, or ask them if they want to hang out with you.
How can you apologize to a friend when you’ve made a mistake?
Say you’re sorry and acknowledge what you did wrong. Be honest and let them know you’ll try not to do it again.
What’s one thing that might make it difficult to make friends?
Acceptable answers: being shy, nervous, not knowing what to say, nothing in common, live too far, anxious, etc.
How can you balance spending time with friends while also taking care of your own needs?
Make sure to communicate with your friends when you need some alone time or have other things to do, and plan specific times to hang out.
What can you do if your friend doesn’t want to talk to you after a conflict?
Give them some space, but let them know you're still there for them when they're ready to talk.